"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finally off Bupropion

Blacksheep

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So after 3 years on that medication I finally took the decision to stop it (with medical supervision) and its been 4 months Im completely off.

In the beginning it was weird, emotions were more intense. And I had this constant fear that I would change after quitting it.

But it seems its normal. I still can deal better with emotions and some situations same way when I was with this med.

I had some relapse on alcohol while quitting this medication, but Im already reaching 3 months without alcohol and Im happy with that.

And stuffs I learned about depression and anxiety:

- Proper sleep literally cut away depression and anxiety for me.
- same for foods. Cutting gluten, sugar and processed foods is life changing.
- exercising and getting sunlight also improved so much my mood.
- psychoanalysis helped a lot.

And all of this happened when I took the decision of going no contact with abusive parents. It was one big step that changed so much in my life.

Have a decent job (not rich) something about 70k a year without taxes, but I can live with some comfort. Bought my apartment in that period and still have a lot of goals.

Started to cultivate consistency with mini habits like doing push upa everyday (Im on a 150 days streak) and doing squats also.

Its also a very lonely road with all that happened with my parents, but its worthing the walk.

Just wanted to share it. Remember when I came here needing for help and have some guys here that really helped me with this situation.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I remember that you were down very bad, it's awesome to see you up.

You take care of all the small things and the big things take care of themselves
 
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