"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finally nipped the problem that was holding me back

donjuanapprentice01

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And I feel like a fool after all these years, for not wanting to hurt my own pride. The problem, all along, was anxiety. It just ate at me. Call it social anxiety, whenever I was around people I would just freeze up and become extremely awkward. Whenever I wanted to ask out a chick, my anxiety held me back and I probably came out like an awkward freak. Anyways, I did a search and found a product called Seredyn... and I can tell you it has made my life much better... I'm more outgoing than I have ever been in my lifetime. I'm not here trying to pimp the product, I'm just saying my problem was anxiety all along and I found something that really helps.

I know alot of you guys having problems are probably anxiety related so I wanted to pass this info along. I never wanted to believe that myself, but I always knew deep down my anxiety was the cause of my complete and utter lack of success.

Anyways, hope this helps someone. Peace!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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please explain...what is this product all about?

I think my problems have been anxiety related in social situations.
 

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F!DELITY said:
please explain...what is this product all about?

I think my problems have been anxiety related in social situations.
Here's the link on Amazon, where i bought mine from:


http://www.amazon.com/Seredyn-Anxiety-Panic-Attacks-Insomnia/dp/B000NKXSVK

They have a website as well, but I prefer reading the customer reviews from a non-biased site. As you will see there are plenty of positives.

I could have gone with some true blue anti-anxiety drugs... but my pride wouldn't let me allow myself to tell my doc about the anxiety I was suffering from, because it was always social anxiety and I felt like I was a wimp or something... I have a strong sense of pride and DO NOT like asking for help, even from my family.

Basically, I take two capsules every morning, and that's all I need to get through my day.
 
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