"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Finally nipped the problem that was holding me back

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And I feel like a fool after all these years, for not wanting to hurt my own pride. The problem, all along, was anxiety. It just ate at me. Call it social anxiety, whenever I was around people I would just freeze up and become extremely awkward. Whenever I wanted to ask out a chick, my anxiety held me back and I probably came out like an awkward freak. Anyways, I did a search and found a product called Seredyn... and I can tell you it has made my life much better... I'm more outgoing than I have ever been in my lifetime. I'm not here trying to pimp the product, I'm just saying my problem was anxiety all along and I found something that really helps.

I know alot of you guys having problems are probably anxiety related so I wanted to pass this info along. I never wanted to believe that myself, but I always knew deep down my anxiety was the cause of my complete and utter lack of success.

Anyways, hope this helps someone. Peace!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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please explain...what is this product all about?

I think my problems have been anxiety related in social situations.
 

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F!DELITY said:
please explain...what is this product all about?

I think my problems have been anxiety related in social situations.
Here's the link on Amazon, where i bought mine from:


http://www.amazon.com/Seredyn-Anxiety-Panic-Attacks-Insomnia/dp/B000NKXSVK

They have a website as well, but I prefer reading the customer reviews from a non-biased site. As you will see there are plenty of positives.

I could have gone with some true blue anti-anxiety drugs... but my pride wouldn't let me allow myself to tell my doc about the anxiety I was suffering from, because it was always social anxiety and I felt like I was a wimp or something... I have a strong sense of pride and DO NOT like asking for help, even from my family.

Basically, I take two capsules every morning, and that's all I need to get through my day.
 
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