Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Finally losing it =]

Citre

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This one girl is really into me and is more than likely willing to go all the way. The only problem is that I'm a virgin. She's not and just got out of a LTR of around a year and a half so she's had sex more than I can count. So, aside from wearing a condom and lots of foreplay, are there any tips I should know?

Also, how long does a first timer usually last? Should I tell her I'm a virgin? I don't care if she knows or not but I'm not sure if it's something she should know. If she knows or not, it doesn't matter because either way I'm still hitting it.

Anything else I should know?
Thanks guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Zerotwoonenine

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me and my girl has only done it around 5 times and we were both virgins before.
Here is all i can tell u, try to heat her up before u go in cos if she has done it many times before, then she wont find it good if shes not turned on, so try to do something to woo her, i am not saying get on your knees or something, just dont do something boring, but dont do the usual-meal-sex routine cause thats just boring, try to do something active then go back to hers or yours, and during it, communication is essential, look for her reactions, some girls dont moan, some do, if she dont ask her whether you are hitting the spot,if she does then all the better.
After you put the rubber on, use your fingers to guide your self into the right hole, then in you go, try to stay relaxed, and its best if you are on top for the first bit cause thats the best position to put on the rubber, while you are putting it on, kiss her or lick her to keep up the moment.
Gud luck!!enjoy-by the way try to hold it in for more than 5 mins, hahhaha.
 

PleasureKing

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Zerotwoonenine said:
try to hold it in for more than 5 mins, hahhaha.
if you cant hold it yourself, then just try to think about something really disgusting. :eek: haha
 

avrilishot

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so shes had sex alot of times right? are you sure you want to even bang her, what if you catch a disease? like you said shes been around right? anyways yep wear a condom maybe even two, jut be carefull. remember this is your choice. and yes tell her your a virgin, so in case you last for 10 sconds lol.
 

ryannath

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I wouldn't tell her I'm a virgin. I didn't tell the chick that I lost my virginity to that I was a virgin, and she didn't ask. She didn't ask, so I didn't tell. Also, I thought I would only last about 2 mintues my first time because that's what ppl say. "Your first time is gonna be so quick man." But, not for me. My first time I lasted at least 20 mins. I did have a condom on and she was rather loose, so maybe that is the main reason though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gymshorts

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never wear two condoms, it doesnt work any better and may even be worse
 

happymeal88

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Yeah, two condoms is a horrible idea. It will cause friction between the two layers which will cause rips which leads to fluid contact. That is exactly what you want to avoid.
 
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