"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Citre

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This one girl is really into me and is more than likely willing to go all the way. The only problem is that I'm a virgin. She's not and just got out of a LTR of around a year and a half so she's had sex more than I can count. So, aside from wearing a condom and lots of foreplay, are there any tips I should know?

Also, how long does a first timer usually last? Should I tell her I'm a virgin? I don't care if she knows or not but I'm not sure if it's something she should know. If she knows or not, it doesn't matter because either way I'm still hitting it.

Anything else I should know?
Thanks guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zerotwoonenine

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me and my girl has only done it around 5 times and we were both virgins before.
Here is all i can tell u, try to heat her up before u go in cos if she has done it many times before, then she wont find it good if shes not turned on, so try to do something to woo her, i am not saying get on your knees or something, just dont do something boring, but dont do the usual-meal-sex routine cause thats just boring, try to do something active then go back to hers or yours, and during it, communication is essential, look for her reactions, some girls dont moan, some do, if she dont ask her whether you are hitting the spot,if she does then all the better.
After you put the rubber on, use your fingers to guide your self into the right hole, then in you go, try to stay relaxed, and its best if you are on top for the first bit cause thats the best position to put on the rubber, while you are putting it on, kiss her or lick her to keep up the moment.
Gud luck!!enjoy-by the way try to hold it in for more than 5 mins, hahhaha.
 

PleasureKing

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Zerotwoonenine said:
try to hold it in for more than 5 mins, hahhaha.
if you cant hold it yourself, then just try to think about something really disgusting. :eek: haha
 

avrilishot

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so shes had sex alot of times right? are you sure you want to even bang her, what if you catch a disease? like you said shes been around right? anyways yep wear a condom maybe even two, jut be carefull. remember this is your choice. and yes tell her your a virgin, so in case you last for 10 sconds lol.
 

ryannath

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I wouldn't tell her I'm a virgin. I didn't tell the chick that I lost my virginity to that I was a virgin, and she didn't ask. She didn't ask, so I didn't tell. Also, I thought I would only last about 2 mintues my first time because that's what ppl say. "Your first time is gonna be so quick man." But, not for me. My first time I lasted at least 20 mins. I did have a condom on and she was rather loose, so maybe that is the main reason though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gymshorts

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never wear two condoms, it doesnt work any better and may even be worse
 

happymeal88

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Yeah, two condoms is a horrible idea. It will cause friction between the two layers which will cause rips which leads to fluid contact. That is exactly what you want to avoid.
 
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