"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FInally I got over my fear - INSPIRATION!

YoDJYouMyDJ

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Up until last night, I was an average frustrated chump who had only kissed one girl. About a year ago I lost a lot of weight (I used to be fat). Even though I'm looking good now, my confidence was totally shot from years of being fat. Now, as all of you, getting girls without being confident is damn near impossible.

So I started reading this forum a lot, checking out sosuave.com and working on my game. Last night I'm at my friend's house and this girl come's over who I've never met before and I was exuding confidence like a mofo. I totally acted like I didn't care about her but at the same time was never oturight mean or rude. After about 5 minutes, she starts talking about casual sex and how it's so liberating. She asks me if I've ever had casual sex, and I'm like "No, but I'd love to give it a shot." She kept on inching closer to me but I maintained my distance to kinda play "hard to get." All of a sudden she grabs me and we just start going at it in my friend's basement. We did everything short of sex, and only not that b/c we didn't have a condom.

Anyway, I know this may seem like nothing to some, but I just wanted to put this out there so that if there are other people like I was, they know all is not lost. Even if you've never hooked up with a girl, etc., it is possible and it WILL happen.

one love
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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WAAAAAHOOOOOOO!!!

Way to be... god i love stories like this! Awesome job bud, keep it up!

Call her... and bring condoms...

Ttyl!
 

YoDJYouMyDJ

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Thanks dude. Yeah I def. got her number and will call her again. She was agressive. I'm like all scratched up now (it's kinda gross I know). I definitely now have a box sitting in my room and hopefully next weekend I'll get to put them to good use.
 

Kidd

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Things like that always happens whenever you stop giving a ****.
 

YoDJYouMyDJ

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he thing is, right now i feel more confident than ever after that conquest and i bet it'll help to get more girls. it's like a huge circle of hot random sex. AND I'M IN THE CENTER OF IT! YES!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Hey, before you know it you'll have to have your own secret service to protect you from all the women:cool:
 

Vincent

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Hell ya dude.

This is goin in success stories. Cheers :cool:
 
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