"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FInally I got over my fear - INSPIRATION!

YoDJYouMyDJ

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Up until last night, I was an average frustrated chump who had only kissed one girl. About a year ago I lost a lot of weight (I used to be fat). Even though I'm looking good now, my confidence was totally shot from years of being fat. Now, as all of you, getting girls without being confident is damn near impossible.

So I started reading this forum a lot, checking out sosuave.com and working on my game. Last night I'm at my friend's house and this girl come's over who I've never met before and I was exuding confidence like a mofo. I totally acted like I didn't care about her but at the same time was never oturight mean or rude. After about 5 minutes, she starts talking about casual sex and how it's so liberating. She asks me if I've ever had casual sex, and I'm like "No, but I'd love to give it a shot." She kept on inching closer to me but I maintained my distance to kinda play "hard to get." All of a sudden she grabs me and we just start going at it in my friend's basement. We did everything short of sex, and only not that b/c we didn't have a condom.

Anyway, I know this may seem like nothing to some, but I just wanted to put this out there so that if there are other people like I was, they know all is not lost. Even if you've never hooked up with a girl, etc., it is possible and it WILL happen.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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WAAAAAHOOOOOOO!!!

Way to be... god i love stories like this! Awesome job bud, keep it up!

Call her... and bring condoms...

Ttyl!
 

YoDJYouMyDJ

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Thanks dude. Yeah I def. got her number and will call her again. She was agressive. I'm like all scratched up now (it's kinda gross I know). I definitely now have a box sitting in my room and hopefully next weekend I'll get to put them to good use.
 

Kidd

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Things like that always happens whenever you stop giving a ****.
 

YoDJYouMyDJ

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he thing is, right now i feel more confident than ever after that conquest and i bet it'll help to get more girls. it's like a huge circle of hot random sex. AND I'M IN THE CENTER OF IT! YES!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hey, before you know it you'll have to have your own secret service to protect you from all the women:cool:
 

Vincent

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Hell ya dude.

This is goin in success stories. Cheers :cool:
 
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