"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Finally i am baffled

LesaneCrooks

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Indeed, a female has finally confused the crap out of me, and as much as i hate it when people ask for someone to "analyze" something a girl says, this one time i will ask for just that.

A girl i have been friends with for a while (friend zone i just assumed) said to me "you know Lesane, we are probably going to end up together in the end". this is because we both ***** to each other about our respective relationships. I, of course, laughed it off cuz i assume i was in the f-zone. However, she said "dont laugh, it could happen". Uhhh, anyone have any clue what the **** this means?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oilers05

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I'm pretty sure it means "Hello, open net, shoot the puck" catch my drift?
 

LesaneCrooks

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This is not the year to use a hockey reference... your bringing tears to my eyes.
 

coolguy676767

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ok, I will rephrase for him...

Hello, open legs, shoot the load, catch MY DRIFT?
 

bud_2005

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How does this baffle you? To me this is a very obvious come on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sounds like someone just wants to brag it off
 

LesaneCrooks

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My bad, i should have explained the situation in more detail.

I have tried to **** this girl before, many, many times. never workded. Thats why its confusing to me that she said this.
 
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