"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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G Rambo34

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so im pretty happy right now. the girl that ive liked for a long time- we just started talking and reconnecting. you see, we were never really friends before this, but we both like eachother. the only problem is, before we can become more than friends, we have to gradually build that up so that we (I) dont rush anything. im not sure how slow i should go, but tradtionally how long do i wait to build things up? what are the dos and donts now considering we are just friends? can i hold her hand? can i kiss her? dont forget that she knows i like her, and she really wants to get to know me. so do i make sure not to rush it but still keep it real.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Faded Image

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Get physical as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the more she starts viewing you as a friend. The friend zone is a sexual graveyard accumulating guys everyday because of societies' "friends first" bs.

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Don't ever second guess on stuff like that. I didn't and I don't with my girl. When we first went out, I read her body language and I didn't ask myself "should I hold her hand?" I just did it. Like Faded said, not being physical is gonna leave you holding your **** and not your girl. Touch her as much as you can and when things start rolling along, you will see why being physical was a good idea.
 

mackdaddy27

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DonS said:
What is wrong with you? You are man pumping testosterone, and she is a supple female praying to be made to feel how only a real man can make her feel. Take her out and show her a great time; be light and funny; bust on her; kiss her; then nail her.

If you ever post on here again the question "can i hold her hand" or "can i kiss her" I'm going to track you down and beat you with a pipe.
emotionality is key..as you will discover
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think you need to read the DJ Bible.
 
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