"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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G Rambo34

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so im pretty happy right now. the girl that ive liked for a long time- we just started talking and reconnecting. you see, we were never really friends before this, but we both like eachother. the only problem is, before we can become more than friends, we have to gradually build that up so that we (I) dont rush anything. im not sure how slow i should go, but tradtionally how long do i wait to build things up? what are the dos and donts now considering we are just friends? can i hold her hand? can i kiss her? dont forget that she knows i like her, and she really wants to get to know me. so do i make sure not to rush it but still keep it real.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Get physical as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the more she starts viewing you as a friend. The friend zone is a sexual graveyard accumulating guys everyday because of societies' "friends first" bs.

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noirsake

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Don't ever second guess on stuff like that. I didn't and I don't with my girl. When we first went out, I read her body language and I didn't ask myself "should I hold her hand?" I just did it. Like Faded said, not being physical is gonna leave you holding your **** and not your girl. Touch her as much as you can and when things start rolling along, you will see why being physical was a good idea.
 

mackdaddy27

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DonS said:
What is wrong with you? You are man pumping testosterone, and she is a supple female praying to be made to feel how only a real man can make her feel. Take her out and show her a great time; be light and funny; bust on her; kiss her; then nail her.

If you ever post on here again the question "can i hold her hand" or "can i kiss her" I'm going to track you down and beat you with a pipe.
emotionality is key..as you will discover
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think you need to read the DJ Bible.
 
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