so im pretty happy right now. the girl that ive liked for a long time- we just started talking and reconnecting. you see, we were never really friends before this, but we both like eachother. the only problem is, before we can become more than friends, we have to gradually build that up so that we (I) dont rush anything. im not sure how slow i should go, but tradtionally how long do i wait to build things up? what are the dos and donts now considering we are just friends? can i hold her hand? can i kiss her? dont forget that she knows i like her, and she really wants to get to know me. so do i make sure not to rush it but still keep it real.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Finally have a problem that Iam proud of
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