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It's taken five months, but I think I might be getting it.
I went an "underground" gig last night. I was standing with two mates behind these good looking girls. My mates were more interested in them than I was. I was too busy absorbing the atmosphere of the place and just wanted to go inside because it was cold outside.
My mates are chatting amongst themselves, you know the usual "I so would do her, in every hole" blah, blah, but neither of them showed any balls to make an approach. So, I thought f*ck it, I'm going to apply the SoSuave methods here. So I tapped one of the girls on her shoulder and she turns around and I introduce myself and ask her about the bands, what are they like etc.
She seems friendly enough and starts telling me about the ones she knows and I just fling a few questions about the venue and if she has ever been before. How much beer costs, just small talk like that, nothing major. She seems all smiley and generally seems nice. I am just being me, not feeling any pressure to land digits or score. Not really bothered if I do or don't neither. Oh, while I am chatting to this chick, her mates and my mates are talking to each other.
We all enter the venue, me and my mates head straight to bar, the girls wanna try and get to the front to see the band up close and I'm not interested in that, I just wanna listen to some good independent music and neck some beers with my buddies. So they say say "see you later" and go off.
Well the music starts about half an hour later or forty odd minutes later, me and my mates just squeeze into gaps in the audience, we start jumping about having a good time. About an hour or so later, I notice the girl I was speaking to, so I tap my mate and tell him the girls are over there and we squeeze through the gaps to get to her and her mates. I tap her on the shoulder and she turns around has a huge smile on her and hugs me, I've got my arms around her waist, smiling like I'm the dogs bollocks. I'm feeling really confident here, so I shout into her ear if she is enjoying herself? She can't hear me, so I grab her hand and lead her away from the area she is at, she doesn't put up any resistance and we leave the crowded area and stand on the fringes away from the floor where you can actually hear yourself think.
She has her arms rested around my neck and shoulders and my arms are around her waist, we're just talking casually she then drops in "so are you going to buy me drink?", I replied with "I'll buy you a drink when we're out together" and I wink at her, she laughs at that and I move my head forwards as does she and we lock lips and have get off. We get off again and then I pull my phone out and ask her for her digits, she grabs the phone off of me, punches in her number and grabs my hand and leads me back into the audience. I spent the rest of the gig rubbing up against her, arms around her waist, kissing her neck and shares jokes and laughs with her. When the gigs ends and it is time to part way, me and her just stand near the middle of the room kissing and she is like "call me" etc. I am like "I'll see, I'll see". We part ways and on the way home with my mates, they're calling me legendary etc. Asking me for advice on etc.
The truth is, I had no idea how it happened, I just applied what I learnt here in a real life situation and it worked, usually I get rejected, but this is the first time I felt sexy, handsome, confident and in charge of the situation. It was an amazing power trip and I just wanna get back out there and apply what I have learnt here. Sure, I suppose a few beers played apart in my confidence, but I am much more confident, and happy with myself since reading the DJ bible and listening to people on this forum.
2011 has already proven to be a good year so far and I am looking forward to getting out there and putting theory into practise. As for the girl I will give her a ring and arrange a meeting, but I am not bothered about the outcome, if I get sex then fair play, if I don't I don't care. I just wanna get out there and get more experience.
So thank you SoSuave, I am feeling less AFC everyday because of this site. I have recommended this site to my mates who also want to change. God bless you all.
I went an "underground" gig last night. I was standing with two mates behind these good looking girls. My mates were more interested in them than I was. I was too busy absorbing the atmosphere of the place and just wanted to go inside because it was cold outside.
My mates are chatting amongst themselves, you know the usual "I so would do her, in every hole" blah, blah, but neither of them showed any balls to make an approach. So, I thought f*ck it, I'm going to apply the SoSuave methods here. So I tapped one of the girls on her shoulder and she turns around and I introduce myself and ask her about the bands, what are they like etc.
She seems friendly enough and starts telling me about the ones she knows and I just fling a few questions about the venue and if she has ever been before. How much beer costs, just small talk like that, nothing major. She seems all smiley and generally seems nice. I am just being me, not feeling any pressure to land digits or score. Not really bothered if I do or don't neither. Oh, while I am chatting to this chick, her mates and my mates are talking to each other.
We all enter the venue, me and my mates head straight to bar, the girls wanna try and get to the front to see the band up close and I'm not interested in that, I just wanna listen to some good independent music and neck some beers with my buddies. So they say say "see you later" and go off.
Well the music starts about half an hour later or forty odd minutes later, me and my mates just squeeze into gaps in the audience, we start jumping about having a good time. About an hour or so later, I notice the girl I was speaking to, so I tap my mate and tell him the girls are over there and we squeeze through the gaps to get to her and her mates. I tap her on the shoulder and she turns around has a huge smile on her and hugs me, I've got my arms around her waist, smiling like I'm the dogs bollocks. I'm feeling really confident here, so I shout into her ear if she is enjoying herself? She can't hear me, so I grab her hand and lead her away from the area she is at, she doesn't put up any resistance and we leave the crowded area and stand on the fringes away from the floor where you can actually hear yourself think.
She has her arms rested around my neck and shoulders and my arms are around her waist, we're just talking casually she then drops in "so are you going to buy me drink?", I replied with "I'll buy you a drink when we're out together" and I wink at her, she laughs at that and I move my head forwards as does she and we lock lips and have get off. We get off again and then I pull my phone out and ask her for her digits, she grabs the phone off of me, punches in her number and grabs my hand and leads me back into the audience. I spent the rest of the gig rubbing up against her, arms around her waist, kissing her neck and shares jokes and laughs with her. When the gigs ends and it is time to part way, me and her just stand near the middle of the room kissing and she is like "call me" etc. I am like "I'll see, I'll see". We part ways and on the way home with my mates, they're calling me legendary etc. Asking me for advice on etc.
The truth is, I had no idea how it happened, I just applied what I learnt here in a real life situation and it worked, usually I get rejected, but this is the first time I felt sexy, handsome, confident and in charge of the situation. It was an amazing power trip and I just wanna get back out there and apply what I have learnt here. Sure, I suppose a few beers played apart in my confidence, but I am much more confident, and happy with myself since reading the DJ bible and listening to people on this forum.
2011 has already proven to be a good year so far and I am looking forward to getting out there and putting theory into practise. As for the girl I will give her a ring and arrange a meeting, but I am not bothered about the outcome, if I get sex then fair play, if I don't I don't care. I just wanna get out there and get more experience.
So thank you SoSuave, I am feeling less AFC everyday because of this site. I have recommended this site to my mates who also want to change. God bless you all.
