so its been a long road for me. 2 years ago i was a fat goth kid who sat in the corner of the class who everyone thought i was weird and creepy. it was bad i was lookin at my old myspace page and couldnt believe how i was. i was 240 pounds long dyed black hair with nothin but black clothes.... lol after gettin on this site ive decided to change. cut my hair and let it be my natural color. now weigh 185-190 and became more outgoing and confident. now i get to put everything that i learned from here into use. since my after argueing with my mom for 2 weeks finally was able to go to senior week with a few friends. what i wanna do is just go with the flow and talk to girls and have a good time. and if all goes well hook up with 1 or 2 girls while im down there. since im not the same guy i was im more open to doin things and can talk to people im hopin for the best. ill post details on the trip after i come home on the 13th
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
finally feelin good bout myself
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Prodigy746
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Thats good to hear man!!! I am glad you changed your ways and you are improving your self. Thats why we are all here... we want to improve so gj keep it up and dont let anything get you down.
