"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finally Discovered Why I don't get Second Dates

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What was the leading question to that? Did you ask her what she was passionate about and she started talking about her work OR did you ask about her work and she lighted up about that? What about if you are not properly employed and she asks you about your work? Also if its a one-off then it really shouldn't change the OP's conclusion unless it works most of the time.
She asked me what I did for work. I never ask first. I always give a very short answer because frankly my 9-5 finance job is as boring as can be. BUT it pays well. When I asked her in return, she droned on for awhile. That was my tell-tell clue that she loved what she did so I feigned interest in it by "relating" to it, using my 2 year old niece as a way to continue the conversation.

Did you get some vag as a result of that?
Got a blow job.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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