"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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finally called the girl from mcdonalds

smoothtalker72

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had a little conveersation, nothing big. she seemed interested, she wasnt in a rush to hang up the phone, in fact i probably could have talked for a lot longer than i actually did. but i was pretty nervous and my mind kinda blanked. she could probably tell i was nervous. i asked her if she was busy this weekend and she tells me that she doesnt know yet and that i should call her at the end of the week to find out. were i in my right mind i would have said something like "you just want me to call you again" with a smug sound to it but i was nervous.

think my chances with her were hurt? doesnt seem like it to me but hey im new at this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Five To One

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You just gainned more experience from that one phone conversation than an hour of reading on this website.

Feel good about it.

It seems like you always come up with those witty lines after talking with a girl. It still happens to me all the time. But dont let that bother you, it didnt hurt your chances.
 

tsmith2334

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Five To One said:
You just gainned more experience from that one phone conversation than an hour of reading on this website.

Feel good about it.

It seems like you always come up with those witty lines after talking with a girl. It still happens to me all the time. But dont let that bother you, it didnt hurt your chances.

one of the best replies i've ever seen on here.

:up: to both of you
 

smoothtalker72

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dont you think its too soon to be calling her again? i just asked her last night and if someone called me the next day id start to feel like im being hounded. i dont think i was giving her power. everyone has things to do. i dont really like the idea of giving her the ultimatum of dropping her previous plans for some guy she just met. ill always lose that deal.

i like to think that since she invited me to call back instead of just saying shes busy and leaving it at that that shes interested

by the way i used this for the most part http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000685.html
 
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