"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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finally called the girl from mcdonalds

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smoothtalker72

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had a little conveersation, nothing big. she seemed interested, she wasnt in a rush to hang up the phone, in fact i probably could have talked for a lot longer than i actually did. but i was pretty nervous and my mind kinda blanked. she could probably tell i was nervous. i asked her if she was busy this weekend and she tells me that she doesnt know yet and that i should call her at the end of the week to find out. were i in my right mind i would have said something like "you just want me to call you again" with a smug sound to it but i was nervous.

think my chances with her were hurt? doesnt seem like it to me but hey im new at this.
 

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Five To One

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You just gainned more experience from that one phone conversation than an hour of reading on this website.

Feel good about it.

It seems like you always come up with those witty lines after talking with a girl. It still happens to me all the time. But dont let that bother you, it didnt hurt your chances.
 
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Five To One said:
You just gainned more experience from that one phone conversation than an hour of reading on this website.

Feel good about it.

It seems like you always come up with those witty lines after talking with a girl. It still happens to me all the time. But dont let that bother you, it didnt hurt your chances.
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one of the best replies i've ever seen on here.

:up: to both of you
 
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dont you think its too soon to be calling her again? i just asked her last night and if someone called me the next day id start to feel like im being hounded. i dont think i was giving her power. everyone has things to do. i dont really like the idea of giving her the ultimatum of dropping her previous plans for some guy she just met. ill always lose that deal.

i like to think that since she invited me to call back instead of just saying shes busy and leaving it at that that shes interested

by the way i used this for the most part http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000685.html
 
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