"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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finally called the girl from mcdonalds

smoothtalker72

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had a little conveersation, nothing big. she seemed interested, she wasnt in a rush to hang up the phone, in fact i probably could have talked for a lot longer than i actually did. but i was pretty nervous and my mind kinda blanked. she could probably tell i was nervous. i asked her if she was busy this weekend and she tells me that she doesnt know yet and that i should call her at the end of the week to find out. were i in my right mind i would have said something like "you just want me to call you again" with a smug sound to it but i was nervous.

think my chances with her were hurt? doesnt seem like it to me but hey im new at this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Five To One

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You just gainned more experience from that one phone conversation than an hour of reading on this website.

Feel good about it.

It seems like you always come up with those witty lines after talking with a girl. It still happens to me all the time. But dont let that bother you, it didnt hurt your chances.
 

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Five To One said:
You just gainned more experience from that one phone conversation than an hour of reading on this website.

Feel good about it.

It seems like you always come up with those witty lines after talking with a girl. It still happens to me all the time. But dont let that bother you, it didnt hurt your chances.

one of the best replies i've ever seen on here.

:up: to both of you
 

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dont you think its too soon to be calling her again? i just asked her last night and if someone called me the next day id start to feel like im being hounded. i dont think i was giving her power. everyone has things to do. i dont really like the idea of giving her the ultimatum of dropping her previous plans for some guy she just met. ill always lose that deal.

i like to think that since she invited me to call back instead of just saying shes busy and leaving it at that that shes interested

by the way i used this for the most part http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000685.html
 
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