"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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carreyreincarnate1

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k, so i finally hooked up with this girl. i went to her house and we made out for a while. im positive she likes me cus even after we hooked up she still texts me. how do i make our relationship official? should i just introduce her to someone as my girlfriend? ive never gotten this far and i dont want to ask her to be my girlfriend cus that always failed in the past. however, in this circumstance it might not be a bad idea. what do u guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Five To One

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Why do you feel the need to make her your girlfriend?

Dont you feel it would be better if you could continue getting with this girl and increasing the intaimacy but also activily persue other girls?

Its high school and you should be out there dating multiple girls to get that experience that most guys fail to get.


If a month or two goes by and the two of you are still dating and enjoying it then you may want to consider making it offical, otherwise just consider it casual dating and defenently not exclusive.


I do not endorse exclusive relationships in high school. You shouldnt either.

Good luck man
 
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search1ng

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went through the same thing i think the becoming girlfriend just happened naturally when people saw us hanging out so much together. At the moment i feel having a girlfriend is over-rated. It limits my ability to go scope out other potential women cause cheating on someone is a big no no.
 
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