"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FINALLY!!! but...

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k, so i finally hooked up with this girl. i went to her house and we made out for a while. im positive she likes me cus even after we hooked up she still texts me. how do i make our relationship official? should i just introduce her to someone as my girlfriend? ive never gotten this far and i dont want to ask her to be my girlfriend cus that always failed in the past. however, in this circumstance it might not be a bad idea. what do u guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Five To One

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Why do you feel the need to make her your girlfriend?

Dont you feel it would be better if you could continue getting with this girl and increasing the intaimacy but also activily persue other girls?

Its high school and you should be out there dating multiple girls to get that experience that most guys fail to get.


If a month or two goes by and the two of you are still dating and enjoying it then you may want to consider making it offical, otherwise just consider it casual dating and defenently not exclusive.


I do not endorse exclusive relationships in high school. You shouldnt either.

Good luck man
 

search1ng

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went through the same thing i think the becoming girlfriend just happened naturally when people saw us hanging out so much together. At the moment i feel having a girlfriend is over-rated. It limits my ability to go scope out other potential women cause cheating on someone is a big no no.
 
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