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k, so i finally hooked up with this girl. i went to her house and we made out for a while. im positive she likes me cus even after we hooked up she still texts me. how do i make our relationship official? should i just introduce her to someone as my girlfriend? ive never gotten this far and i dont want to ask her to be my girlfriend cus that always failed in the past. however, in this circumstance it might not be a bad idea. what do u guys think?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Five To One

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Why do you feel the need to make her your girlfriend?

Dont you feel it would be better if you could continue getting with this girl and increasing the intaimacy but also activily persue other girls?

Its high school and you should be out there dating multiple girls to get that experience that most guys fail to get.


If a month or two goes by and the two of you are still dating and enjoying it then you may want to consider making it offical, otherwise just consider it casual dating and defenently not exclusive.


I do not endorse exclusive relationships in high school. You shouldnt either.

Good luck man
 

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went through the same thing i think the becoming girlfriend just happened naturally when people saw us hanging out so much together. At the moment i feel having a girlfriend is over-rated. It limits my ability to go scope out other potential women cause cheating on someone is a big no no.
 
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