"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Finally approached her

Westwind

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I have this girl in my class that throws me looks all of the time.

So like a week ago i tried to approach her after class, but i pussed out.

Today i had to chase her down, i was so nervous. My whole body was shaking and first when i went up to her i just backed off. I just told myself "Dude you have to do this, if you don't it will bug you all week." So i pushed myself to do it.

I went behind her and said hey and got nothing ,so i tapped her on the back and said something like this.

Me: Hey , arent you in my class?
Her:Yeah
Me: What do you of it?
Her: It's fun
Me: Yeah i like it when people get into verbal fights, its real funny.
Her: Haha yeah that's funny
Me: So what did u do this weekend
Her: Oh me i had too much fun

Then aqwaurd silence

Her: What about you
Me: Oh i had alot of fun too.
Me: Well have fun
Her: You too later.

( This was very short, but better then nothing)

I just couldn't think of anything really to say. Like now i can think of alot of stuff that i could of said. I really wanted to get her # and ask her to hang. But i didn't get that far. Any suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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J-Bone

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when she says
Her: Oh me i had too much fun
she is giving you the hint that she wants to tell you all about it.
so hmmm what could you say
You: really now, well now i bet you didnt have as much fun as i did.
Her: what did you do?
You: I want to hear your story first
she may tell you and talk for an hour but if its something short give her a look like shes lame and tell her what you did, now i always do things that can top off any story they tell me and few hardly ever do top mine, but if you are one of those people who doesn't do much i'd suggest you start doing things but for now you could make something believable up. make her wonder why she never knew that quite guy in class was so crazy and yes im saying that i bet you are the quite guy in class if anything answer questions to get your voice in the classroom. cmon man start talking to strangers even a homeless man until you can have pleasant conversations with anyone.
 

Westwind

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You'd think im quite in class , i probably talk the most out of anyone.

Thanks for your input, it's helpful.
 

ngaplz

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Westwind said:
You'd think im quite in class , i probably talk the most out of anyone.

Thanks for your input, it's helpful.
It is QUIET not QUITE. Some people on this forum really need a dictionary.
 

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Good job on breaking the ice. You have a lot more work to do. Start by reading articles in the Hall of Fame

Try to read ones about conversation, building attraction and kino. Unfortunately there is soo much information. Good luck
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Westwind

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ngaplz said:
It is QUIET not QUITE. Some people on this forum really need a dictionary.

Thanks for being spell check , but that's not the kind of help i need.
 

DonJuan11

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Westwind said:
Thanks for being spell check , but that's not the kind of help i need.

If you spell like that in front of the girl, it will be the kind of help you need.
 

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You: So what did u do this weekend
Her: Oh me i had too much fun
You: Same. i was at home and played ps2 and watched some porn, played helicopter with my penis and went to bed.
Her: Omg serious!? Me too!!
You: Haha... wait... you have a penis?
 
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