"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finally approached her

Westwind

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I have this girl in my class that throws me looks all of the time.

So like a week ago i tried to approach her after class, but i pussed out.

Today i had to chase her down, i was so nervous. My whole body was shaking and first when i went up to her i just backed off. I just told myself "Dude you have to do this, if you don't it will bug you all week." So i pushed myself to do it.

I went behind her and said hey and got nothing ,so i tapped her on the back and said something like this.

Me: Hey , arent you in my class?
Her:Yeah
Me: What do you of it?
Her: It's fun
Me: Yeah i like it when people get into verbal fights, its real funny.
Her: Haha yeah that's funny
Me: So what did u do this weekend
Her: Oh me i had too much fun

Then aqwaurd silence

Her: What about you
Me: Oh i had alot of fun too.
Me: Well have fun
Her: You too later.

( This was very short, but better then nothing)

I just couldn't think of anything really to say. Like now i can think of alot of stuff that i could of said. I really wanted to get her # and ask her to hang. But i didn't get that far. Any suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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J-Bone

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when she says
Her: Oh me i had too much fun
she is giving you the hint that she wants to tell you all about it.
so hmmm what could you say
You: really now, well now i bet you didnt have as much fun as i did.
Her: what did you do?
You: I want to hear your story first
she may tell you and talk for an hour but if its something short give her a look like shes lame and tell her what you did, now i always do things that can top off any story they tell me and few hardly ever do top mine, but if you are one of those people who doesn't do much i'd suggest you start doing things but for now you could make something believable up. make her wonder why she never knew that quite guy in class was so crazy and yes im saying that i bet you are the quite guy in class if anything answer questions to get your voice in the classroom. cmon man start talking to strangers even a homeless man until you can have pleasant conversations with anyone.
 

Westwind

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You'd think im quite in class , i probably talk the most out of anyone.

Thanks for your input, it's helpful.
 

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Westwind said:
You'd think im quite in class , i probably talk the most out of anyone.

Thanks for your input, it's helpful.
It is QUIET not QUITE. Some people on this forum really need a dictionary.
 

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Good job on breaking the ice. You have a lot more work to do. Start by reading articles in the Hall of Fame

Try to read ones about conversation, building attraction and kino. Unfortunately there is soo much information. Good luck
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Westwind

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ngaplz said:
It is QUIET not QUITE. Some people on this forum really need a dictionary.

Thanks for being spell check , but that's not the kind of help i need.
 

DonJuan11

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Westwind said:
Thanks for being spell check , but that's not the kind of help i need.

If you spell like that in front of the girl, it will be the kind of help you need.
 

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You: So what did u do this weekend
Her: Oh me i had too much fun
You: Same. i was at home and played ps2 and watched some porn, played helicopter with my penis and went to bed.
Her: Omg serious!? Me too!!
You: Haha... wait... you have a penis?
 
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