"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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f'in high schoolers

walletjes

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so yesterday was a good day bunch of girls came over, just grad highschool. i took whatever was easy (dadadadrunk), and at the same time this other girl i met before was so into me.
well the girl i tagged in my room said she was a virgin, but considerign she was so easy and i just met her = ???
but what made it seem true is i couldnt fit my junk all the way in her, and she was crying in pain when i tried.

anyways finish biz up grab her # she leaves. then the other girl knew what was going on, storms in and is so pissed , yelling at me cause i hooked up with ehr friend cause she wanted me, i say whatever your jealous. she runs home crying.

so yea when should i call up the girl i jsut tagged... i was thinking 1 day after...or is it too soon (damn im a horny s.o.b)

how should i approach the jealous girl ? (she is prude ((yet she makes out hardcore with other chicks)) )
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Seeing as that you're 24...i feel i should hold you to a higher standard regarding your ability to write a sentence that i can read, understand and not stumble over. English 101 perhaps?? Anyway...you're 24 and having issuese approaching prude 18 year old girls fresh out of HS??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Anyway...you're 24 and having issuese approaching prude 18 year old girls fresh out of HS??
ouch...lol


anyways. your 24 and still hittin on little 18 years olds fresh out of high school?? dude....there still children for sakes.....lol
 

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18? Come on you can go younger. Even easier yeah know.
 

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owned by a 20 year old psych major thats rockin the superiority complex, who is gonna have no job when he gets out of college :eek:
 

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The sad thing is though is that everyone looks at age like it somehow just magically changes people as they get older and yet there are so many people out there who "stay 18" even though they're 25 or even 35. Age may be better at indicating a persons physical age than their mental one. That's why you get people who are more mature for their age and some who are rediculously immature for their age. Even if such a classification truly exists or matters for that point.
 

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DJHoolahoop said:
The sad thing is though is that everyone looks at age like it somehow just magically changes people as they get older and yet there are so many people out there who "stay 18" even though they're 25 or even 35. Age may be better at indicating a persons physical age than their mental one. That's why you get people who are more mature for their age and some who are rediculously immature for their age. Even if such a classification truly exists or matters for that point.
then man speaks thr truth and tell no lies, a random fyi, i have hooked up with ladies of age range 18-34 this year :cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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walletjes said:
owned by a 20 year old psych major thats rockin the superiority complex, who is gonna have no job when he gets out of college :eek:
Good to see you take time to memorize what im going to school for and point out the fact that you think im better than you. Dont worry about me having a job; i know what my future entails, you dont. You should be more concerned about what to do about this girl mr smartass.
 
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