"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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f'in high schoolers

walletjes

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so yesterday was a good day bunch of girls came over, just grad highschool. i took whatever was easy (dadadadrunk), and at the same time this other girl i met before was so into me.
well the girl i tagged in my room said she was a virgin, but considerign she was so easy and i just met her = ???
but what made it seem true is i couldnt fit my junk all the way in her, and she was crying in pain when i tried.

anyways finish biz up grab her # she leaves. then the other girl knew what was going on, storms in and is so pissed , yelling at me cause i hooked up with ehr friend cause she wanted me, i say whatever your jealous. she runs home crying.

so yea when should i call up the girl i jsut tagged... i was thinking 1 day after...or is it too soon (damn im a horny s.o.b)

how should i approach the jealous girl ? (she is prude ((yet she makes out hardcore with other chicks)) )
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Seeing as that you're 24...i feel i should hold you to a higher standard regarding your ability to write a sentence that i can read, understand and not stumble over. English 101 perhaps?? Anyway...you're 24 and having issuese approaching prude 18 year old girls fresh out of HS??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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xxSLavExx

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oakraiderz2 said:
Anyway...you're 24 and having issuese approaching prude 18 year old girls fresh out of HS??
ouch...lol


anyways. your 24 and still hittin on little 18 years olds fresh out of high school?? dude....there still children for sakes.....lol
 

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18? Come on you can go younger. Even easier yeah know.
 

walletjes

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owned by a 20 year old psych major thats rockin the superiority complex, who is gonna have no job when he gets out of college :eek:
 

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The sad thing is though is that everyone looks at age like it somehow just magically changes people as they get older and yet there are so many people out there who "stay 18" even though they're 25 or even 35. Age may be better at indicating a persons physical age than their mental one. That's why you get people who are more mature for their age and some who are rediculously immature for their age. Even if such a classification truly exists or matters for that point.
 

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DJHoolahoop said:
The sad thing is though is that everyone looks at age like it somehow just magically changes people as they get older and yet there are so many people out there who "stay 18" even though they're 25 or even 35. Age may be better at indicating a persons physical age than their mental one. That's why you get people who are more mature for their age and some who are rediculously immature for their age. Even if such a classification truly exists or matters for that point.
then man speaks thr truth and tell no lies, a random fyi, i have hooked up with ladies of age range 18-34 this year :cheer:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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walletjes said:
owned by a 20 year old psych major thats rockin the superiority complex, who is gonna have no job when he gets out of college :eek:
Good to see you take time to memorize what im going to school for and point out the fact that you think im better than you. Dont worry about me having a job; i know what my future entails, you dont. You should be more concerned about what to do about this girl mr smartass.
 
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