"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Filtering out the AW from the ones who

DJnoob

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if this hasn't been asked then, ill go ahead and be the first one to ask.

So, how do you filter our the Attention *****s from the ones who are really interested in you? Is there a way to do this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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An easy way to filter out an AW is initial response to your approach. When you walk up and use your opener, do they just spout off? Another easy method is to examine their demeanor ahead of time. An AW will always ALWAYS give it away if you just look and listen for about ten seconds. Anyways, you should be able to attract AW's anyway, just for a good night out, eh?

-Damian
 

DJnoob

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oh, i didnt mean from approaching women.. like at a bar, mall, etc..

Im talking about in a work environment for example..
 
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