"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Filtering out the AW from the ones who

DJnoob

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if this hasn't been asked then, ill go ahead and be the first one to ask.

So, how do you filter our the Attention *****s from the ones who are really interested in you? Is there a way to do this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damian

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An easy way to filter out an AW is initial response to your approach. When you walk up and use your opener, do they just spout off? Another easy method is to examine their demeanor ahead of time. An AW will always ALWAYS give it away if you just look and listen for about ten seconds. Anyways, you should be able to attract AW's anyway, just for a good night out, eh?

-Damian
 

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oh, i didnt mean from approaching women.. like at a bar, mall, etc..

Im talking about in a work environment for example..
 
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