"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Filtering out the AW from the ones who

DJnoob

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if this hasn't been asked then, ill go ahead and be the first one to ask.

So, how do you filter our the Attention *****s from the ones who are really interested in you? Is there a way to do this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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An easy way to filter out an AW is initial response to your approach. When you walk up and use your opener, do they just spout off? Another easy method is to examine their demeanor ahead of time. An AW will always ALWAYS give it away if you just look and listen for about ten seconds. Anyways, you should be able to attract AW's anyway, just for a good night out, eh?

-Damian
 

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oh, i didnt mean from approaching women.. like at a bar, mall, etc..

Im talking about in a work environment for example..
 
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