“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
No seriously...reading sucks up a lot of time, and it may even be more productive. And heck, you can even use it as a pickup tool.
GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS
And, by OUT, i mean anywhere outside. Go arrange a football game or something. Maybe just walk around the city and chill. Go for coffee.
DO ANYTHING
Life is out there, just do it.
-Damian
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Master Don Juan
take "mini-vacations" where you drive to neighboring cities
just to hang out.
Congratulations! You now have more free time than you know what to do with.
First things first. Sit back, take a deep breath, and relax.
TV is not good for you. You can't even figure out what to do when you're not watching it!
I found that it took many hobbies to replace TV. It's up to you to find some hobbies. In any case, I replaced my TV by finding hobbies so that I don't have any free time afterall. I keep myself busy as a way of deciding what I do with my own free time. Before, with TV, my schedule may have looked like this:
8-5 school/work/errands
5-6 after-work duties/TV if none
6-7 Dinner (while watching TV)
7-12 TV/internet (at the same time!)
That was the base schedule, unless something interrupted it - and friends often did. I just defaulted towards watching TV or getting on the internet unless I had something better to do.
To replace the downtime, I adopted a few time consuming hobbies and set goals for progress in those hobbies, then I set time aside for them. I know spend about an hour a day playing my guitar - sometimes more, sometimes not at all. I also work on programming at least three times a week, workout at the gym almost every other day, make sure to eat healthy, and at the same time mantain a healthy social life by inviting people out to dinner, lunch, drinks, etc. almost every night of the week. Combine this with work and school, and now I couldn't watch TV if I wanted to. I'd have to give something else up.
Just find something that you enjoy, and make sure you keep your attention by setting a goal related to it. In other words, don't just play the guitar. Make a goal to master the guitar. But also be realistic, and know that you wont master it right away, so set smaller goals as well - for example, to learn a song. And learn some scales, and some chords. Then make a goal to learn your favorite song. Or ten songs. Or to write a song. Just keep raising your expectations and then meeting them. The cycle becomes quite addictive.
Take up a few hobbies to spend your time on, and maintain a healthy social life. You will be a much happier and interesting person for it.
BrotherAP
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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gardening
fishing
driving around listening to music
exercise
build something
go for a walk
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-go to the gym
-go clean up the garage (or work on something in the garage.)
-go to the mall and walk around the shops
-go to the hardware store and look around.
-see what your freinds are doing.
i got my tv time down to two hours a day. last week i didn't watch it for 4 days strait.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.