"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Filling Someone Else's Shoes

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CoRVeTTe6699

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theres this girl that i chilled with a while ago.

here are the facts:

-i met her online

-i hung out with her once

-after we hung out we still talked and she said "im hot"
when i sent her more pictures of myself

-i called her to hang out again, she didnt seem like she wanted to.. i asked her to hang out .. she kept saying "i don't know" and later in the conversation she said she wanted to cry (im assuming she misses her old boyfriend who moved away)

- later that same night she hung out with her girl-friends.



i stopped iming her for a week, she imed me once during the weeek i stopped iming her... in her diary she wishes someone can fill her empty space since her boyfriend moved away a while ago...from what she wrote, she desperately wants a boyfriend...i want to be her boyfriend...what should i DO!?!?!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You should.....back the phuck up and find another girl while keepin this trill on the side.
 
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dont get sucked in my friend.

the above djs said all that needs to be said.

i know you wont listen tho. So good luck and please do try to protect your heart so you dont come back here crying in 3 months when she dumps you/ cheats on you.


sorry brodah.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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