"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Filling Someone Else's Shoes

CoRVeTTe6699

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theres this girl that i chilled with a while ago.

here are the facts:

-i met her online

-i hung out with her once

-after we hung out we still talked and she said "im hot"
when i sent her more pictures of myself

-i called her to hang out again, she didnt seem like she wanted to.. i asked her to hang out .. she kept saying "i don't know" and later in the conversation she said she wanted to cry (im assuming she misses her old boyfriend who moved away)

- later that same night she hung out with her girl-friends.



i stopped iming her for a week, she imed me once during the weeek i stopped iming her... in her diary she wishes someone can fill her empty space since her boyfriend moved away a while ago...from what she wrote, she desperately wants a boyfriend...i want to be her boyfriend...what should i DO!?!?!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oakraiderz2

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You should.....back the phuck up and find another girl while keepin this trill on the side.
 

LikRetsam

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Jester

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dont get sucked in my friend.

the above djs said all that needs to be said.

i know you wont listen tho. So good luck and please do try to protect your heart so you dont come back here crying in 3 months when she dumps you/ cheats on you.


sorry brodah.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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