How do you figure out what type of guy she's into, with the least amount of info possible? Its pretty easy to find the type she likes by examining her ex's, but what other ways can you figure it out? What signs will she show that say, "I like big muscular guys, I like the class clown, or I like the head of the football team"?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Figuring out what type of guy she's into?
- Thread starter Eph
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Two notable examples from my past...
1. Jock girl into muscle-head types. Banged. Said she's usually never into artsy types but I'm some kind of exception.
2. Artsy/hipster girl into hipster/indie guys. Banged. Said she's usually never into jock types but I'm some kind of exception.
See what happened? To the girl who's always banging jocks, she found me to be artsy by comparison. To the artsy girl, I was a jock by her usual standards.
Both girls had sex with me anyway because types don't mean **** when you got gameee, homie
1. Jock girl into muscle-head types. Banged. Said she's usually never into artsy types but I'm some kind of exception.
2. Artsy/hipster girl into hipster/indie guys. Banged. Said she's usually never into jock types but I'm some kind of exception.
See what happened? To the girl who's always banging jocks, she found me to be artsy by comparison. To the artsy girl, I was a jock by her usual standards.
Both girls had sex with me anyway because types don't mean **** when you got gameee, homie
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Eph said:
Why are you trying to figure out what type of guys this girl is into? You are who you are. So you should only be worried about if she's into YOU.
And finding that out is easy. You talk to her. If she's warm and receptive, keep going - she might be into you. If she's cold and standoffish, she probably isn't.
No disrespect, of course - this is the type of question I would have asked when I was younger. But ultimately, there are too many girls in the world to waste your time doing all this research on one chick. By the time you determine that you're "her type," and that she's single, and the type of dates she likes to go on, and her humor, etc, etc, it's already too late.
So just go talk to the broad. Not even hitting on her. Just freakin talk to her. 5 minutes of conversation will give you more info than 5 weeks of thinking about it.
You've misunderstood my post. I'm not after any specific girl (well, I am but its not going to happen, and is irrelevant). When I say "she", and "her" I am speaking in general. I interested in the psychology behind it, hence the reason for wanting to figure out "her type". For example, I'm a pretty quiet guy and people have told me I'm pretty laid back - which I can't argue with - and the usual type of women that approach me, I've noticed are pretty introverted themselves. At least on the surface anyway. I guess what I really want to know is if opposites really do attract or does like beget like?Iceberg said:
I could care less if I am, specifically, someone's type.
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Bullsh!t!Eph said:
I know that you know, that you like some girl! So, what can you do to get her to like you...
As player supreme once said, Dont be a Ho chaser!!
What a girl says she wants, and what a girl responds to is two different things.
Just be you (Your DJ Self), say Hi. Start a covo and see where things go. If Interest Level is low, move on! Plenty of fish in the sea!