“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Figuring out what type of guy she's into?

Eph

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How do you figure out what type of guy she's into, with the least amount of info possible? Its pretty easy to find the type she likes by examining her ex's, but what other ways can you figure it out? What signs will she show that say, "I like big muscular guys, I like the class clown, or I like the head of the football team"?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"Her type" doesn't matter, don't be try to form yourself around one specific girl.
 

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Two notable examples from my past...

1. Jock girl into muscle-head types. Banged. Said she's usually never into artsy types but I'm some kind of exception.

2. Artsy/hipster girl into hipster/indie guys. Banged. Said she's usually never into jock types but I'm some kind of exception.

See what happened? To the girl who's always banging jocks, she found me to be artsy by comparison. To the artsy girl, I was a jock by her usual standards.

Both girls had sex with me anyway because types don't mean **** when you got gameee, homie ;)
 

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Relating is a process that refuses to be master-minded.

You have to proceed by brave leaps into the unknown, like the rest of us.
 

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Girls only have two types:

Fvckable

or

Not Fvckable
 

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Eph said:
How do you figure out what type of guy she's into, with the least amount of info possible? Its pretty easy to find the type she likes by examining her ex's, but what other ways can you figure it out? What signs will she show that say, "I like big muscular guys, I like the class clown, or I like the head of the football team"?

Why are you trying to figure out what type of guys this girl is into? You are who you are. So you should only be worried about if she's into YOU.

And finding that out is easy. You talk to her. If she's warm and receptive, keep going - she might be into you. If she's cold and standoffish, she probably isn't.

No disrespect, of course - this is the type of question I would have asked when I was younger. But ultimately, there are too many girls in the world to waste your time doing all this research on one chick. By the time you determine that you're "her type," and that she's single, and the type of dates she likes to go on, and her humor, etc, etc, it's already too late.

So just go talk to the broad. Not even hitting on her. Just freakin talk to her. 5 minutes of conversation will give you more info than 5 weeks of thinking about it.
 

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Iceberg said:
Why are you trying to figure out what type of guys this girl is into? You are who you are. So you should only be worried about if she's into YOU.

And finding that out is easy. You talk to her. If she's warm and receptive, keep going - she might be into you. If she's cold and standoffish, she probably isn't.

No disrespect, of course - this is the type of question I would have asked when I was younger. But ultimately, there are too many girls in the world to waste your time doing all this research on one chick. By the time you determine that you're "her type," and that she's single, and the type of dates she likes to go on, and her humor, etc, etc, it's already too late.

So just go talk to the broad. Not even hitting on her. Just freakin talk to her. 5 minutes of conversation will give you more info than 5 weeks of thinking about it.
You've misunderstood my post. I'm not after any specific girl (well, I am but its not going to happen, and is irrelevant). When I say "she", and "her" I am speaking in general. I interested in the psychology behind it, hence the reason for wanting to figure out "her type". For example, I'm a pretty quiet guy and people have told me I'm pretty laid back - which I can't argue with - and the usual type of women that approach me, I've noticed are pretty introverted themselves. At least on the surface anyway. I guess what I really want to know is if opposites really do attract or does like beget like?

I could care less if I am, specifically, someone's type.
 

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Eph said:
You've misunderstood my post. I'm not after any specific girl (well, I am but its not going to happen, and is irrelevant). When I say "she", and "her" I am speaking in general. I interested in the psychology behind it, hence the reason for wanting to figure out "her type". For example, I'm a pretty quiet guy and people have told me I'm pretty laid back - which I can't argue with - and the usual type of women that approach me, I've noticed are pretty introverted themselves. At least on the surface anyway. I guess what I really want to know is if opposites really do attract or does like beget like?

I could care less if I am, specifically, someone's type.
Bullsh!t!

I know that you know, that you like some girl! So, what can you do to get her to like you...

As player supreme once said, Dont be a Ho chaser!!

What a girl says she wants, and what a girl responds to is two different things.

Just be you (Your DJ Self), say Hi. Start a covo and see where things go. If Interest Level is low, move on! Plenty of fish in the sea!
 

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Lol girls don't know what they want, 9 times out of 10 they settle for whatever guy has the balls to game her first.
 
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