"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJDamage

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piranha45 said:
Yeah there must be something wrong with palm-heel strikes, as djdamage said, or we'd be seeing them in mma...
Its probably because a palm hit doesn't carry as much power as a fist punch.

As well as I am sure you are more likely to risk a wrist injury using a palm strike then a fist.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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piranha45 said:
Yeah there must be something wrong with palm-heel strikes, as djdamage said, or we'd be seeing them in mma...
Look up some of Bas Rutten's old clips on youtube when he was fighting pankration. The blows were devastating.
 

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DJDamage said:
That's true to certain extent but when you raise your palm, you also leave your wrist exposed while placing it in an awkward raised manner.

The safest method I would think is curling your arm and throwing a side elbow to someone's face. The bone in your elbow could probably absorb any shock recieved when it lands on someone's face or even using a downward elbow (which is illegal in the UFC due to its devastating injury potential) on someone head.
I agree, if you can somehow manage to throw a side elbow and be close enough to strike, you can take a very large person out. Another good method in a fight is to immediately dive for the attackers knee straight on, tearing his ACL. Its kind of a b1tch move, but it sure disables someone from chasing you.

My favorite move is to grab someone's hair and pull them toward me and to the ground. I have never seen anyone expect that.
 

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you ever heard of the one hit kill that the ninjas learn?

its a special move where you slam your fist sideways with pressure with your other hand driving your fist into the other persons chest 2 inches below their sternum (or something).

it is proven to kill with one hit only. because it effs up the hearts rythm.
apparantly it gives such a huge shock its like using shock paddles to a beating heart.

the other is the muay thai knee to the chest move, that was proven to break ribs and potentially kill if you ruptured the heart muscle
 

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speakeasy said:
And this is especially for the martial artists in the forum...

What do you think is the most devastating move there is? I'm not talking ground moves like BJJ chokes and locks. I mean as far as striking, where you can lay someone out with one movement. I guess another way of asking is what is the last move you would want someone to do against you in a fight? For the sake of argument, let's leave out kicks to the nuts.

If I had to guess, I would say a good, clean knee shot to the face is about as brutal as it gets. That's the last thing I think I'd want to experience in a fight. A hook punch to the temple would hurt like b*tch, or a punch to the throat too, or a head stomp, but something about the thought of taking the full brunt of a knee square to the face makes me flinch. And you know you're gonna be spitting out some teeth.
I like the Chin jab from the Fairbairn-sykes-applegate-mccann school. Just keep hitting him until he goes down.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Colossus said:
Potentially devastating, but easy to break a hand. That's how Urijah Faber busted his mitt on sun against Mike Brown. I know in boxing the left hook has a high contact percentage as well.
I watched that fight, Mike Brown is a beast. I didn't see where Faber hurt his hand but any punch can cause a breakage without proper delivery or accidental slippage. Chuck Liddell used to lay out opponents in his prime with the overhand right
 

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DJKid said:
I watched that fight, Mike Brown is a beast. I didn't see where Faber hurt his hand but any punch can cause a breakage without proper delivery or accidental slippage. Chuck Liddell used to lay out opponents in his prime with the overhand right
What the hell happen to Chuck? He just fell off the wagon didn't he?
 

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He got old, lost his chin.
 

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for most of the fights i have seen or been in there are rarely and good/clean hits. but for the best hit...a punch to the nose or maybe throat.
 

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There are a lot of weak points on the human body. You have points running down the center line of the body on the front and back as well as any spots covered while standing normally. The thing I was taught though was that in a real fight a person can shift just enough so that you miss the exact spot. The thing is to make every strike count and not just rely on a hit to a certain place to disable a person.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A devistating punch can occur with timing. If a guy leans into your punch it will do more damage. Punch a guy in the face when he is not ready will work too. Fake with your left and throw a right hook (example.)
 

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if the fight was life or death...

a karate chop to the front of the throat is certain death
 

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saber said:
if the fight was life or death...

a karate chop to the front of the throat is certain death
I wonder what the legal implications are of getting in a fight(in self defense) and using a technique that resulted in death. You obviously wouldn't be charged with 1st degree murder but you might get a manslaughter charge and still do some time, even if you didn't intend to kill him.
 

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The general rule with self-defense is that you may use an equal amount of force as your attacker, for the brief time period necessary to defend your safety. You are not supposed to use deadly force unless deadly force is aimed at you by your attacker.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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no, the hadouken is intimidating and deadly. Nothing scream 'don't fvck with me,' more then a flaming ball of energy approaching you at a very slow speed.
 

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search1ng said:
no, the hadouken is intimidating and deadly. Nothing scream 'don't fvck with me,' more then a flaming ball of energy approaching you at a very slow speed.
Wow. That was sooo funny, I can't wait for another one.

Pleeease.

Please another one. Its so funny.
 

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allegory if you dont play nice with your blocks im going to put them up where you cant reach them.
 

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piranha45 said:
allegory if you dont play nice with your blocks im going to put them up where you cant reach them.
Sounds good to me. I'm bored with blockhead one and two anyways.
 

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Knee-stomp done correctly will finish any fight against an opponentno matter the size difference. Watch Anderson Silva's fight against thales leites and just imagine if those were used on a regular person and you will get my drift.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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