You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Like with any weapon, don't show it if you don't plan on using it.Chase12 said:lol i think messing up his house is taking it too far..
dun be a ***** just go fight him when hes ALONE..kick his ass.. then if he brings 5 of his friends just buy a knife or sumthing.. im sure if u pull out a knife they'll prolly back off.. or break a bottle..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ignoring your grammar, its still easily sensed that your IQ rarely is higher than room temperature.Chase12 said:well its either that getting beat up by 3+ more guys... if its more than 3 guys imo u should just do it.. they can really **** u up..
u dun have to kill him just stab his arm or sumthing that'll scare him off
also.. if u think its a ***** thing to bring a weapon well hes a ***** for bringing 3 other friends