When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Like with any weapon, don't show it if you don't plan on using it.Chase12 said:lol i think messing up his house is taking it too far..
dun be a ***** just go fight him when hes ALONE..kick his ass.. then if he brings 5 of his friends just buy a knife or sumthing.. im sure if u pull out a knife they'll prolly back off.. or break a bottle..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ignoring your grammar, its still easily sensed that your IQ rarely is higher than room temperature.Chase12 said:well its either that getting beat up by 3+ more guys... if its more than 3 guys imo u should just do it.. they can really **** u up..
u dun have to kill him just stab his arm or sumthing that'll scare him off
also.. if u think its a ***** thing to bring a weapon well hes a ***** for bringing 3 other friends