"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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k when i was little i used to be a bully.. like i had 4 fights every week and stuff like that.. happend since the beginning of school to like grade 6,

then slowly around grade 8.. i started to fight with heart.. like im a big guy but i hate fighting.. and i had a few street fights that last a good 30 min.. now im almost out of high school.... but before a fight i get butter flies and i hate fighting.. i stand up for myself but it takes someone to ALOT to piss me off.. i have an anger problem but i worked on it lots.. i can be mad but i never take i out.. i hold it in.. and it takes someone to piss me off for a while for me to throw the first punch.. but when i throw that first punch.. i dont stop

maybe i was thinking i STill got the whole nice guy thing going on..

but the thing is, i dont give a **** on most things and im confident, just the fighting thing,

anyone ever eperience it?/
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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sorry for the gammar.. im a lil baked :p

oh yea i didnt want to put this in the high school form cuz i know its a problem for everbody and its good too discuss it with each other.. and plus theres more replies here
 
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Originally posted by sexy_kuta
k when i was little i used to be a bully.. like i had 4 fights every week and stuff like that.. happend since the beginning of school to like grade 6,

then slowly around grade 8.. i started to fight with heart.. like im a big guy but i hate fighting.. and i had a few street fights that last a good 30 min.. now im almost out of high school.... but before a fight i get butter flies and i hate fighting.. i stand up for myself but it takes someone to ALOT to piss me off.. i have an anger problem but i worked on it lots.. i can be mad but i never take i out.. i hold it in.. and it takes someone to piss me off for a while for me to throw the first punch.. but when i throw that first punch.. i dont stop

maybe i was thinking i STill got the whole nice guy thing going on..

but the thing is, i dont give a **** on most things and im confident, just the fighting thing,

anyone ever eperience it?/
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I call bullsh1t on that, which makes me question the rest of your story.

Its hard to understand what your asking but it sounds to me like your used to fighting with anger and without strong emotion cant fight.. best way to fix this is to train at a gym on a boxing bag or take up a martial art. Then you can fight with a clean mind (although the adrenaline IS abit distracting).

Oh and wrong forum > Anything Else
 
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well 30 min.. i only had a few fights like 5

and the average was around half n hour.. it wasont UFC style either.. i hate wreslting

more like boxing
well the longest i could remember was arouns 30 min.. rest were around 15 mins

long way back but i ment to say i lasted long
 
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im not trying to bragg.. i hate braggging

i never fought intense.. like grabbing each other throwing each other trying to get ontop..

when i fight.. its usually a boxing form type.. we just try to punch each other and block shots but never try to take each other down so thats why i could last longer than a usual fight.. i know it would be hard to last in a UFC type of fight haha
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The reason i find it unbelievable is because of a few reasons:

- I'v personally never seen a 'street' fight go over 3 minutes

I instruct martial arts and am a pretty serious boxer myself, and without training most people can last 1-2 rounds mid intensity before becoming completely exhausted.

'when i fight.. its usually a boxing form type.. we just try to punch each other and block shots but never try to take each other down so thats why i could last longer than a usual fight'

- Even untrained fighters grapple.. most common thing i see is the left hand grabbing the shirt while they beat the guy down with their right.

Come on now.. lets just call your 'street fights' what they really are.. playground pissing contests.
 
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sure if you want

i dont really care but

how could i fix this?

i was thinking of joining boxing and train.

i heard the training is a very good work out
 
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