"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fight with girlfriend - Call first or wait for her to call me

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Long story short, we were having a great day today and we were at the time. Theres this gay kid we know and i said in a joking way, wow im surprised he doesn't want me, every gay guy wants me.

She goes very serious with her body language bent towards me....because he doesnt want tool bags....i got a bit angry, normally i laugh about it and go ur the one dating the tool bag..but it was her body language that got to me and how serious she was. She was almost crying that i said ill talk to u tomorow and walked away and drove away slow. Also now her FB status says sleeping forever with a cry face....

Should i call her and talk it out or wait for her to call me.


Also weve been seeing eachother almost everyday for 6 weeks(i know 2 much) but starting officially dating yesterday.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wouldn't call...
Unless I was a complete ass, I let them do the apologizing, sometime even if I was an ass I let them make up...

It just sounds like you were joking around and she got offended... Oops...
 
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Just wait it out. But if she contacts you today, tell her why your upset and how you didn't appreciate that outburst. Say you understand she was defending him, but she needs to realize you we're joking and find her behavior completely uncalled for. You feel a little disrespected.

I just let them know. Problems in a LTR won't be solved with the silent treatment. You need to let her know why you did what you did. Be direct and don't back down from your position. Stand by your decision to be upset. But be open to trying to reach a solution.

Good luck. Let me hear an update.
 
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talking usually resolves things better than silence imo (and sooner rather than later so it doesnt become a 'thing') but its not usually up to the offended person to apologize. this all stemmed from something you said (rightly or wrongly). her behavior was then a reaction to that

like, say im at work and i make a joke about something and 5 people laugh and the 6th is majorly offended - I would apologize to that person and say i won't make that kind of joke again. It doesnt matter if i think its silly, its not my place to decide which things other people can be upset or offended by

now if the thing i did which was a problem was something bigger, like say the 6th person was offended that i had grown a beard or drove a car, then thats different, its not appropriate for me to change that or even apologize for it - but a joke? its not a problem to back down, take on the chin and say sorry

unless making that kind of comment is important to you and you would like to again

also, if you apologize then it is more likely you will be able to find out exactly WHY she was offended by it
 
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Chick sounds coo coo for coca puffs. If you call her, you validate her weirdness and make it 'okay.' Do not call. Let her realize that she over reacted. Otherwise, get used to this being the norm.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This would be my plan of attack: Call her, meet up with her, diffuse the 'situation'(figure out why she got mad, and apologize; despite how you feel about it.) Once she's happy again change the subject, seduce her, and have great makeup sex.

If this is a girl you're interested in I wouldn't wait for her to contact you. Men should be men. So be a man and take control of the relationship. And like someone else said the longer you let it drag out, the bigger of an issue it's going to become. Next time she pisses you off don't run away from it. Confront her and make her realize she being a b1tch.
 
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Crissco said:
Long story short, we were having a great day today and we were at the time. Theres this gay kid we know and i said in a joking way, wow im surprised he doesn't want me, every gay guy wants me.

She goes very serious with her body language bent towards me....because he doesnt want tool bags....i got a bit angry, normally i laugh about it and go ur the one dating the tool bag..but it was her body language that got to me and how serious she was. She was almost crying that i said ill talk to u tomorow and walked away and drove away slow. Also now her FB status says sleeping forever with a cry face....

Should i call her and talk it out or wait for her to call me.


Also weve been seeing eachother almost everyday for 6 weeks(i know 2 much) but starting officially dating yesterday.
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Call her up and say something nice you jerk lol nah JK but seriously, let it cool down for now and call her up. Why? because this is what shes thinking if you dont call her, ::she looks at her phone to see if she has any missed calls or messages:: "I cant believe he's not even calling me" now shes debating in her mind if she should send you a text. she wont call you, ever since the text message was invented, girls LOVE it. they can hide their emotion behind the text message. anyway,... call her up if you really like her and smooth things out.
 
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She ended up calling me yesterday. She stayed the night.. She is now on her way bringing me soup bc im sick
 
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Crissco said:
She ended up calling me yesterday. She stayed the night.. She is now on her way bringing me soup bc im sick
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haahah good job ! it's funny how sex fixes everything :)
 
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