Fight With GF Before Vacation...

[Slick101]

Going away tommrow for a week... Arguing with my LTR 2 years Ive been with her...

all about bull**** and now she is in a higher position than me and tells me I am very mean to her and she doesnt know if she should be with me.... I ask her

ME: you want to break up?
HER: I dont know

I am going away and I want to be in a good mood.... this is making me feel like ****... Im even thinking about breaking up with her...

opinions?

 

[Son of anarchy]

An argue through vacation that give her some time for herself is the best thing a hor can have.
She get the time to get banged from all the men she wants in summer and then a lovely boyfriend waiting for her in september when she'll came back at home and she wont be able anymore to be a hor due to family and friends,she get the fun in summer and the security in winter.
My opinion,now your choose.

 

[GrimPhallic]

No bro, anarchy you have to understand her mindset. When people go on vacation they are there to have fun, everyone knows that, and girls are easy to get. Your girl is prob insecure probably about you going, shes maybe afraid you will meet other chicks. You fvcked up though when she said you are mean to her and shes not sure if she should be with you. You shouldve said something ****y in reply like "you mean I'm not sure if I should be with you?". Always act ****y... But she wont do anything stupid. Shes worried thats all. I have had this argument sooooooo many times in my day. And I always still met chicks

Austin

 

[Lust]

No bro, anarchy you have to understand her mindset. When people go on vacation they are there to have fun, everyone knows that, and girls are easy to get. Your girl is prob insecure probably about you going, shes maybe afraid you will meet other chicks. You fvcked up though when she said you are mean to her and shes not sure if she should be with you. You shouldve said something ****y in reply like "you mean I'm not sure if I should be with you?". Always act ****y... But she wont do anything stupid. Shes worried thats all. I have had this argument sooooooo many times in my day. And I always still met chicks

Austin

No, don't always act ****y.

Too many aspiring "DJs" overkill the ****y funny thing. There are times when that's a bad idea, use your head.

 

[Warrior74]

she's in a higher position than you? Explain that?

I guess if you are asking her if she wants to break up then she is the boss. 2 years and she wore you down to AFC eh? You know what to do. Ease away. Put your heart back in your chest. Scan the horizon for possible targets and go have at it. Oh..and find your balls while your on vacation. "do you want to break up?" geezus! wtf?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I'd say go have fun on your vacation and think about some things. Which, will give her time to think too. After being away for awhile you will find out if the both of you want to still be together or not.

 

[PeeGee]

Depends on what you want to do.

Leave on a vacation without resolving it, and she has the entire time to justify why you should break up.

Leaving without a high note is not a good thing to do, ever, in a LTR. Fix whatever it is, and f*** her brains out before you leave. Leave on a high note, with her wanting more.

Seriously, what are you thinking?