"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going away tommrow for a week... Arguing with my LTR 2 years Ive been with her...

all about bull**** and now she is in a higher position than me and tells me I am very mean to her and she doesnt know if she should be with me.... I ask her

ME: you want to break up?
HER: I dont know

I am going away and I want to be in a good mood.... this is making me feel like ****... Im even thinking about breaking up with her...

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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An argue through vacation that give her some time for herself is the best thing a hor can have.
She get the time to get banged from all the men she wants in summer and then a lovely boyfriend waiting for her in september when she'll came back at home and she wont be able anymore to be a hor due to family and friends,she get the fun in summer and the security in winter.
My opinion,now your choose. :whistle:
 
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No bro, anarchy you have to understand her mindset. When people go on vacation they are there to have fun, everyone knows that, and girls are easy to get. Your girl is prob insecure probably about you going, shes maybe afraid you will meet other chicks. You fvcked up though when she said you are mean to her and shes not sure if she should be with you. You shouldve said something ****y in reply like "you mean I'm not sure if I should be with you?". Always act ****y... But she wont do anything stupid. Shes worried thats all. I have had this argument sooooooo many times in my day. And I always still met chicks ;)

Austin
 
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GrimPhallic said:
No bro, anarchy you have to understand her mindset. When people go on vacation they are there to have fun, everyone knows that, and girls are easy to get. Your girl is prob insecure probably about you going, shes maybe afraid you will meet other chicks. You fvcked up though when she said you are mean to her and shes not sure if she should be with you. You shouldve said something ****y in reply like "you mean I'm not sure if I should be with you?". Always act ****y... But she wont do anything stupid. Shes worried thats all. I have had this argument sooooooo many times in my day. And I always still met chicks ;)

Austin
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No, don't always act ****y.

Too many aspiring "DJs" overkill the ****y funny thing. There are times when that's a bad idea, use your head.
 
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she's in a higher position than you? Explain that?

I guess if you are asking her if she wants to break up then she is the boss. 2 years and she wore you down to AFC eh? You know what to do. Ease away. Put your heart back in your chest. Scan the horizon for possible targets and go have at it. Oh..and find your balls while your on vacation. "do you want to break up?" geezus! wtf?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd say go have fun on your vacation and think about some things. Which, will give her time to think too. After being away for awhile you will find out if the both of you want to still be together or not.
 
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Depends on what you want to do.

Leave on a vacation without resolving it, and she has the entire time to justify why you should break up.

Leaving without a high note is not a good thing to do, ever, in a LTR. Fix whatever it is, and f*** her brains out before you leave. Leave on a high note, with her wanting more.

Seriously, what are you thinking?
 
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