"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slick101

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Going away tommrow for a week... Arguing with my LTR 2 years Ive been with her...

all about bull**** and now she is in a higher position than me and tells me I am very mean to her and she doesnt know if she should be with me.... I ask her

ME: you want to break up?
HER: I dont know

I am going away and I want to be in a good mood.... this is making me feel like ****... Im even thinking about breaking up with her...

opinions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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An argue through vacation that give her some time for herself is the best thing a hor can have.
She get the time to get banged from all the men she wants in summer and then a lovely boyfriend waiting for her in september when she'll came back at home and she wont be able anymore to be a hor due to family and friends,she get the fun in summer and the security in winter.
My opinion,now your choose. :whistle:
 
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No bro, anarchy you have to understand her mindset. When people go on vacation they are there to have fun, everyone knows that, and girls are easy to get. Your girl is prob insecure probably about you going, shes maybe afraid you will meet other chicks. You fvcked up though when she said you are mean to her and shes not sure if she should be with you. You shouldve said something ****y in reply like "you mean I'm not sure if I should be with you?". Always act ****y... But she wont do anything stupid. Shes worried thats all. I have had this argument sooooooo many times in my day. And I always still met chicks ;)

Austin
 
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GrimPhallic said:
No bro, anarchy you have to understand her mindset. When people go on vacation they are there to have fun, everyone knows that, and girls are easy to get. Your girl is prob insecure probably about you going, shes maybe afraid you will meet other chicks. You fvcked up though when she said you are mean to her and shes not sure if she should be with you. You shouldve said something ****y in reply like "you mean I'm not sure if I should be with you?". Always act ****y... But she wont do anything stupid. Shes worried thats all. I have had this argument sooooooo many times in my day. And I always still met chicks ;)

Austin
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No, don't always act ****y.

Too many aspiring "DJs" overkill the ****y funny thing. There are times when that's a bad idea, use your head.
 
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she's in a higher position than you? Explain that?

I guess if you are asking her if she wants to break up then she is the boss. 2 years and she wore you down to AFC eh? You know what to do. Ease away. Put your heart back in your chest. Scan the horizon for possible targets and go have at it. Oh..and find your balls while your on vacation. "do you want to break up?" geezus! wtf?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'd say go have fun on your vacation and think about some things. Which, will give her time to think too. After being away for awhile you will find out if the both of you want to still be together or not.
 
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Depends on what you want to do.

Leave on a vacation without resolving it, and she has the entire time to justify why you should break up.

Leaving without a high note is not a good thing to do, ever, in a LTR. Fix whatever it is, and f*** her brains out before you leave. Leave on a high note, with her wanting more.

Seriously, what are you thinking?
 
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