thebestthing
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haha it's appreciated anyway, I'm just glad no fighting happened.Desert Fox said:
I'll keep the advice in mind.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fight help, I've got myself into a situation.
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I'll keep the advice in mind.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
eaglez1177
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wow this whole situation is just pathetic
fertileTurtle
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At least you manned up when you had to. Most fears in life are unfounded, but it's always best to rise to the occasion.
thebestthing
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Oh, you're cool.eaglez1177 said:wow this whole situation is just pathetic
lol, and you thought you had something to worry about. A mummy's boy isn't gonna kick your arse. Though seriously if he gives you sh1t face to face again just smirk at him and punch him in the face. Simple as that. Bully him back.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
intrextrovert
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Honestly, "not being able to go out that late" and being taken away by his mommy? Ridicule the **** out of him and ruin his rep.
That kid is a p*ssythebestthing said:Just to let everyone know, the fight was roughly 7 hours ago. I showed up, his friends were a bunch of tight-pants, eyeliner wearing skater emo *****es, and when a friend of mine walked up they looked at eachother like they were scared, lmao.
So **** was getting underway, and we see this lady walking up to us. Turns out, it's the kids mom. She comes up, asks what the hell we're doing here, ask what the deal is. My sister's like 'This little kid won't leave my brother alone.'
And she's like 'OH, he's the one that molested that girl up there?'
It's like dead silent, and my friend stephen just busts out "Oh GOD, I wouldn't molest that thing."
Even the mom laughed, ended up backhanding her kid in front of us, then took him home.
Just wanted to throw the update out there for everyone that's been helping.
Here's what you do. Next time you see him, punch the f*cker in the face. Right out of the blue when he doesn't expect it. Kick his ass, don't take no sh*t. And stop being so scared of getting your ass kicked. Almost no one ever got seriously hurt in a high-school fight. An what if you receive a few punches, SO WHAT. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.No fighting, fortunately, which is what I wanted to avoid in the first place. I was only doing it to get the kid off my ass, but even then he's still texting me and calling me a *****.
Captain Harlock
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I don't think you should beat him up. Getting into trouble with the school heads is not worth it over a little baby like him. Usually intimidation works well enough on guys like him. Just walk up to him right in front of his nose (press him against the wall for added dramatic effect), stare and growl at him and tell him you're gonna rape his ass in front of everybody if he doesn't stop.
you can fight dirty throw some sand in his face and fight, and pick up **** on the ground.
or
have him start the fight and if one of you guys gets injured file a lawsuit, btw if that guy and his friends are over 18 then it sucks more for them.
but if you do fight, punch and hold the punch for like 1 second because it'll move all the kinetic energy from your hand or your feet to the body.
or
have him start the fight and if one of you guys gets injured file a lawsuit, btw if that guy and his friends are over 18 then it sucks more for them.
but if you do fight, punch and hold the punch for like 1 second because it'll move all the kinetic energy from your hand or your feet to the body.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thebestthing
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Original kid left me alone.Colerbear said:Yeah keep your chin tucked in hands up and whatever you do. DONT stop hitting him. And to give a punch you need to take a punch so if you cant take a couple punches dont even plan on going.
Kids brother is the one talking **** to me now. Him and his band are playing at a local venue this Friday. We're attending, just to start trouble.
Accension
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You could win the fight with this piece of advice alone.snowdog said:Yea, that's the way. Show that f*cker you're not scared.
If things are about to go haywire, be sure to be the first one to punch. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT.
Be sure to KEEP punching until he's incapacitated.
I swear, punch first and keep punching and you won't lose any HS fight.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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dont be a pu$$y, fight him, thats how REAL men solve there problems...
dumbass..
dumbass..
Get-With-It
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Dude don't go starting some new **** now or you'll just end up in the same situation again. You gotta be the bigger man and just let this dramatic bull end already.thebestthing said:Original kid left me alone.
Kids brother is the one talking **** to me now. Him and his band are playing at a local venue this Friday. We're attending, just to start trouble.
thebestthing
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It was yesterday, actually. I decided against attending. Everything's been quiet all day.Get-With-It said:Dude don't go starting some new **** now or you'll just end up in the same situation again. You gotta be the bigger man and just let this dramatic bull end already.
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Listen to some old school Eminem, gets you hyped as hell amd angry!
Criminal, Kim, Remember Me?, Amityville, Under the Influence, and Kill You.
Criminal, Kim, Remember Me?, Amityville, Under the Influence, and Kill You.