Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sleeping 3 or 4 times a week is something to emulate?Fifty I heard was quite an ascetic, only slept three or four times a week, was semi vegetarian and very picky with his women and a bit of weight lifter to relieve stress. Those are qualities of his to emulate.
I see where your getting ate but at what cost he has a rocky relationship with his son and has to watch out in some cities.Fifty I heard was quite an ascetic, only slept three or four times a week, was semi vegetarian and very picky with his women and a bit of weight lifter to relieve stress. Those are qualities of his to emulate.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
To each its ownHis "own kind"? Whatever do you mean by that @eli77 ?
Ignoring the assumed racist nature of that statement, 50 Cent is a renowned troll...he once offered Floyd Mayweather a bet where he'd contribute a significant sum of money to any charity of Floyd's choosing if he would read a single page of a Harry Potter or Cat in the Hat book on live radio.
He also did his interview about this documentary with ABC because he knew it was one of the only TV stations Diddy could watch from prison.
As far as his relationship with his son, Marquise, it's strained because, despite receiving $6,700 in child support since turning 18 more than 9 years ago, he thinks he should receive more simply because his father is a multimillionaire. His relationship with his other son, Sire, is much better, which is why 50 publicly posted that he would inherit everything, because he is "more responsible".
He has to watch out in some cities? Every rapper does. Tupac, Biggie, PnB Rock, King Von...all rappers who were murdered, also, all by other black men too..."his own kind"...
This post showed up at the top of Latest Posts, and I found it so incredibly ignorant that I had to leave this reply.
Why try to argue with someone whose personality goes no deeper than their 10 words per posts? lolHis "own kind"? Whatever do you mean by that @eli77 ?
Ignoring the assumed racist nature of that statement, 50 Cent is a renowned troll...he once offered Floyd Mayweather a bet where he'd contribute a significant sum of money to any charity of Floyd's choosing if he would read a single page of a Harry Potter or Cat in the Hat book on live radio.
He also did his interview about this documentary with ABC because he knew it was one of the only TV stations Diddy could watch from prison.
As far as his relationship with his son, Marquise, it's strained because, despite receiving $6,700 in child support since turning 18 more than 9 years ago, he thinks he should receive more simply because his father is a multimillionaire. His relationship with his other son, Sire, is much better, which is why 50 publicly posted that he would inherit everything, because he is "more responsible".
He has to watch out in some cities? Every rapper does. Tupac, Biggie, PnB Rock, King Von...all rappers who were murdered, also, all by other black men too..."his own kind"...
This post showed up at the top of Latest Posts, and I found it so incredibly ignorant that I had to leave this reply.
That can leave to a quick death just ask Tupac and biggie.Fifty is a real gangster. He used to be called BooBoo and was running an entire operation in Jamaica Queens. A guy took a shot at him and after he recovered he took a shot back and took him out. You can watch his interview with Oprah. Fifty is never going to change who he is. He is the real thing.
Great point.Fifty I heard was quite an ascetic, only slept three or four times a week, was semi vegetarian and very picky with his women and a bit of weight lifter to relieve stress. Those are qualities of his to emulate.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.