"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fifteen Lessons

DJDamage

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GREAT GREAT POST This is what Pook is known for! I was a bit worried with the Confidance is boring thread which was good but kinda lacked that good kick to the butt that makes you jump out of your seat that this one did.

"Many women consider your looks, your career, what you can offer them, before your integrity and character."

He said many women, not all women. Some do consider that element first and some don't. Everyone has their own little agenda what is considered better: An ugly rich guy, or a handsome poor guy.

But I do believe that "what you can offer them" is pretty much on the top of the list. Women mostley want Passion and excitment in a relationship and the more testosterize a man is the better his chances are.

That is why there are many good looking women dating rough thugs/criminals out there because it doesn't really matter for the women if the guy is a good guy or not but how he makes them feel on the inside. Blame nature for this one.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lost In Translation

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Great post pook.

it was like being at Sizzler, all you can eat

i have come away feeling bloated, but content that when the bloated feeling goes away i will have put on 5 pounds of pure DJ

:D

Thankyou




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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

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“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

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“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

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“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

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“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

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“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 

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pook is the fcking man.
work hard fellas

this post picked me up and really motivated me. i've been procrastinating with school and working out. and after reading this article it hit me. do i really want to rot away without living life the way it should be lived?
-Ron
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damn you Pook


Everything, and the last qoute in particular, induces me to conquer the world.

And all that jazz

S H I T.............!
 

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lesson 14 is iffy in my mind, but otherwise.......

AWESOME

Glad to see this site still gets some quality posts out once in a while
 

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whoa... just finished reading it. I thought it was an old Pook post I never got to read at first but it was new. Normally I'd put Pook posts in my favorites and read over it every day, but that is a waste of my time that i could be out doing something. Lemme just skim over the essentials one last time... I think I'll take a break from SoSuave again after this post.... it's that good :)
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
whoa... just finished reading it. I thought it was an old Pook post I never got to read at first but it was new.
Your instinct was right on. This post is many years old. It was never put out because it was never finished. But I didn't have the heart to delete it like I did many of the others. (So to say, "I thought it was an old Pook post I never got to read..." is EXACTLY the case) So I added to the post, off and on, over time. So the beginning, middle, and end read very differently.

I hope you all enjoy it. And even though the post is old, perhaps it is still helpful. In fact, all the posts I am putting out now are at least a year old (except for the Cool Guy posts).
 

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Dear Pook,

In Lesson Two, the women vanish in a fireball, is this because they are the devil?

Thank you,

Hollowpoint
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Hollowpoint
Dear Pook,

In Lesson Two, the women vanish in a fireball, is this because they are the devil?

Thank you,

Hollowpoint
Hahaha. They do this because I have a sense of humor. Don't you?

Next thing you know, people are going to ask me if I'm a violent Pook because I slapped the youth around!
 

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New posts

The Pook - what are the 'Cool Guy' posts? Are you working on them now?
 

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bump

lesson2 has helped me out so much in the past few weeks. guys do not just sit around and talk. guys do things and if i'm going for a woman, i'll be going romantically, fullout sexual eye contact and kino. i won't just sit about talking.

cheers man
 

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“Women come and go, but YOU are forever
wonderful quote.. when i read that something clicked in my head.. it is so obvious..women will be around no matter what you are.. so dont worry about them, worry about YOU.

..yeah... *exhales*
 

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Holy sh*t

Bump.

Next thing you know, people are going to ask me if I'm a violent Pook because I slapped the youth around!

No. But I gotta wonder if you were raised a Catholic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pook, I did like the 15 lessons, but I wonder, what is your status with women so far, have you been successful? are you happy?
 

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Excelent post.


But the truth is that nothing of it will help me improve my way or my game.


But then again, props to pook for this great job.
 

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Extraordinary.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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