"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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European-DJ

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Even though it would make the SS look more like a PUA site, i think a sub-forum for Field rapports would be awesome.

I enjoy reading them, and I think they offer solid advice (if they are detailed), and could give the totally inexperienced guys some inside on approaches/convos/escalation - well in general, how it should and shouldn't be done!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agree, it would be a great way to encourage people to do more since they are not as much as they should be.
 

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I agree we need a section for field reports. Give us afcs a tested and succesful tactic until we can improvise our own approaches.

Are there any mods that can set a section like that up?
 

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Well, they did the "MArried man forum", now i hope to see this within limited time :)!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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European-DJ said:
How come (In Which way)?

I am just curious.
From what I've been told, it was hardly used, and when ever people did post one it would always end up in some heated debate about whether or not the FR was actually real or not, or some other matter. Then you also had guys like ElStud writing essays about how he went up to women and made Yoshi noises.
 
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