"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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European-DJ

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Even though it would make the SS look more like a PUA site, i think a sub-forum for Field rapports would be awesome.

I enjoy reading them, and I think they offer solid advice (if they are detailed), and could give the totally inexperienced guys some inside on approaches/convos/escalation - well in general, how it should and shouldn't be done!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Agree, it would be a great way to encourage people to do more since they are not as much as they should be.
 

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I agree we need a section for field reports. Give us afcs a tested and succesful tactic until we can improvise our own approaches.

Are there any mods that can set a section like that up?
 

European-DJ

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Well, they did the "MArried man forum", now i hope to see this within limited time :)!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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European-DJ said:
How come (In Which way)?

I am just curious.
From what I've been told, it was hardly used, and when ever people did post one it would always end up in some heated debate about whether or not the FR was actually real or not, or some other matter. Then you also had guys like ElStud writing essays about how he went up to women and made Yoshi noises.
 
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