"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So yesterday I got the urge to go sarging and so I went out with a friend to a pool hall.

It was karaoke night and there was a few hot chicks around.

One of the girls that sang later approached me for a tip and I refused telling her that she was mean to me and which she was when I got there. And then I changed the subject and asked for her name and asked about her singing abilities and she goes off abut some bull****.

i talked to some other *****es and found out just about every girl around was a damn stripper. it sucked because there was like dudes all over these hoes and so i couldn't approach since i didn't know none of these f*cks.

And also what was supposed to be my wingman, wasn't up to sarging when we got there so maybe its time to sarge alone for a while or soemthing.

I need to work on opening groups and also I'm having a major problem keeping girls interested in me and showing my value for the most part. I don't know any magic tricks and I'm not exactly all about telling some stories about me going skydiving or some sh*t so got to figure something out. Any tips would be appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok so I have 2 tips for you....

1. Post less

2. Read more



G-man
 
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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
So yesterday I got the urge to go sarging and so I went out with a friend to a pool hall.

It was karaoke night and there was a few hot chicks around.

One of the girls that sang later approached me for a tip and I refused telling her that she was mean to me and which she was when I got there. And then I changed the subject and asked for her name and asked about her singing abilities and she goes off abut some bull****.

i talked to some other *****es and found out just about every girl around was a damn stripper. it sucked because there was like dudes all over these hoes and so i couldn't approach since i didn't know none of these f*cks.

And also what was supposed to be my wingman, wasn't up to sarging when we got there so maybe its time to sarge alone for a while or soemthing.

I need to work on opening groups and also I'm having a major problem keeping girls interested in me and showing my value for the most part. I don't know any magic tricks and I'm not exactly all about telling some stories about me going skydiving or some sh*t so got to figure something out. Any tips would be appreciated
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Excellent. Sally completely agrees with me that you burned him like the world trade center.
 
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Dimebag_Darrell
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Maybe you should read the DJ Bible all over again if you havent yet.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey motherf*ckers! I'm still not a pick up machine yet you tools! I'm still progressing and at least I'm making an effort, YES AN EFFORT to actually get better unlike the rest of you pseudo intellectual f*ck ups!

I'm not mystery, I'm still not DD, so go to hell if you wanna flame me on one bad night. I mean damn, I didn't ask to be flamed. I just posted my damn night in a nutshell, but it wasn't a total failiure on account that I found some really really good nacho cheese for my tortilla chips so f*ck you all!

And on that nig who posted how many posts I've made. B*TCH SO WHAT!? Just because I posted 3 million f*cking posts on some mediocre dating forum doesn't mean I'm supposed to be a dating guru. But I still get my share of the booty when I go treasure huntin.

Smoke acid
 
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Dimebag, at least you post FRs; more FRs and less bad advise would be good.

about finding the nachos and salsa thing, lol.

When people post very little, others scorn them;when people post a lot, people scorn them. lose lose situation.
 
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The current uprising in the population of dumbf*cks on this site has been at an all time high, and it looks like there won't be no letting up for a while! I'm truly psyched.

I love pissing people off!

AND YES YES, A field report now a days is soo much better than a tip which has been read and rephrased off one of Pook's posts or something. You can't beat the authenticity of an FR.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
The current uprising in the population of dumbf*cks on this site has been at an all time high, and it looks like there won't be no letting up for a while! I'm truly psyched.

I love pissing people off!

AND YES YES, A field report now a days is soo much better than a tip which has been read and rephrased off one of Pook's posts or something. You can't beat the authenticity of an FR.
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Well, if you ever get lonely, you always have your mom, or I am sure your good buddy JC jerkson could help you out!:p :p

Just kidding. :D Try not to hyperventilate...
 
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Smoke acid
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You don't smoke acid. You drop it(eat it) or you absorb liquid LSD through your skin.

Maybe you should start to take drugs, might help you fix your ****ed up views on life.
 
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Dimebag_Darrell, don't let the idiots get to you. Even if you didn't close any women, at least you went out and socialized. You're lightyears ahead of me when I was 17, and you're probably ahead of most of the armchair DJs who flamed you.

Approaching women who are already with dudes is tough. I don't do it either. Just keep going out and have a good time with your friends. Concentrate on that and don't pressure yourself into sarging, and more opportunities will come to you.
 
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Shezz, check your inbox
 
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One ****ty FR is better than the majority of the BS on this site.

Nice work my man, keep it up.

Next time, when you're fizzling out and its tough to keep conversation going, I usually have a safety phrase that will reignite dying conversation.

"So what's your story?"

You can generally get her talking about any aspect of her life with this phrase alone. Remember, keep the conversation to FEELINGS. She can talk about her day, the weather, her job with anyone. Seem genuinely interested in how she feels and what she feels, and she won't want to leave.

-Griffman
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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