"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Field report.

toddC

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Okay, this is a field report from last night (Saturday). I was at a costume party last night. Me and my boys came in togas (everyone loved it).

So right as I walk in I see 4-5 girls I've been sarging in school for the past few weeks and right away 2 of them come up and give me the kiss hello and I start kinoing them right away. So everyone gets trashed beer pong, flip cups, kings, you name it they had it at this party (even absinthe...yes its the real green stuff from Euro Trip)

So I go get trashed and sure enough I'm having a great time.

The girls:

HB 8.5 - I walk up to her (i've known her for a while now) and start talking and put my arm around her (jokingly) she accepts the kino quite well so I do it more and more and it ended up she tried looking for a private place to "talk" but it didn't work out.

HB 7 - I've known her for a while too..Took a few pix with her (added kino in) I kinda left her with just a kiss on the lips to tide her over for next weekend (homecoming)

HB 9 - I've been going after this chick for a VERY VERY long time. Finally I saw some positive responses as she was coming onto me before I even had a chance. I ended hooking up with this chick the majority of the night.

Thats it and in my mind it was a VERY positive night. Sorry with the lack of detail but I could go on and on with these stories lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, this is a field report from last night (Saturday). I was at a costume party last night. Me and my boys came in togas (everyone loved it).

So right as I walk in I see 4-5 girls I've been sarging in school for the past few weeks and right away 2 of them come up and give me the kiss hello and I start kinoing them right away. So everyone gets trashed beer pong, flip cups, kings, you name it they had it at this party (even absinthe...yes its the real green stuff from Euro Trip)

So I go get trashed and sure enough I'm having a great time.

The girls:

HB 8.5 - I walk up to her (i've known her for a while now) and start talking and put my arm around her (jokingly) she accepts the kino quite well so I do it more and more and it ended up she tried looking for a private place to "talk" but it didn't work out.

HB 7 - I've known her for a while too..Took a few pix with her (added kino in) I kinda left her with just a kiss on the lips to tide her over for next weekend (homecoming)

HB 9 - I've been going after this chick for a VERY VERY long time. Finally I saw some positive responses as she was coming onto me before I even had a chance. I ended hooking up with this chick the majority of the night.

Thats it and in my mind it was a VERY positive night. Sorry with the lack of detail but I could go on and on with these stories lol.
was the hb9 really hb9 or simply because you feel her more than you put hb9 ???

and uh sounds like as good as it can be !!
point of field report is for those details tho :D :cool:
 

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yea she is def a HB 9 i'm positive. and yea i know but i coulda gone on forever with this FR lol...
 

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uhh when ur wasted everyone is at least a 9.

also being drunk is a great excuse for kino. if they deny its cool cuz ur drunk ... right? :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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