"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Field report.

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Okay, this is a field report from last night (Saturday). I was at a costume party last night. Me and my boys came in togas (everyone loved it).

So right as I walk in I see 4-5 girls I've been sarging in school for the past few weeks and right away 2 of them come up and give me the kiss hello and I start kinoing them right away. So everyone gets trashed beer pong, flip cups, kings, you name it they had it at this party (even absinthe...yes its the real green stuff from Euro Trip)

So I go get trashed and sure enough I'm having a great time.

The girls:

HB 8.5 - I walk up to her (i've known her for a while now) and start talking and put my arm around her (jokingly) she accepts the kino quite well so I do it more and more and it ended up she tried looking for a private place to "talk" but it didn't work out.

HB 7 - I've known her for a while too..Took a few pix with her (added kino in) I kinda left her with just a kiss on the lips to tide her over for next weekend (homecoming)

HB 9 - I've been going after this chick for a VERY VERY long time. Finally I saw some positive responses as she was coming onto me before I even had a chance. I ended hooking up with this chick the majority of the night.

Thats it and in my mind it was a VERY positive night. Sorry with the lack of detail but I could go on and on with these stories lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, this is a field report from last night (Saturday). I was at a costume party last night. Me and my boys came in togas (everyone loved it).

So right as I walk in I see 4-5 girls I've been sarging in school for the past few weeks and right away 2 of them come up and give me the kiss hello and I start kinoing them right away. So everyone gets trashed beer pong, flip cups, kings, you name it they had it at this party (even absinthe...yes its the real green stuff from Euro Trip)

So I go get trashed and sure enough I'm having a great time.

The girls:

HB 8.5 - I walk up to her (i've known her for a while now) and start talking and put my arm around her (jokingly) she accepts the kino quite well so I do it more and more and it ended up she tried looking for a private place to "talk" but it didn't work out.

HB 7 - I've known her for a while too..Took a few pix with her (added kino in) I kinda left her with just a kiss on the lips to tide her over for next weekend (homecoming)

HB 9 - I've been going after this chick for a VERY VERY long time. Finally I saw some positive responses as she was coming onto me before I even had a chance. I ended hooking up with this chick the majority of the night.

Thats it and in my mind it was a VERY positive night. Sorry with the lack of detail but I could go on and on with these stories lol.
was the hb9 really hb9 or simply because you feel her more than you put hb9 ???

and uh sounds like as good as it can be !!
point of field report is for those details tho :D :cool:
 

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yea she is def a HB 9 i'm positive. and yea i know but i coulda gone on forever with this FR lol...
 

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uhh when ur wasted everyone is at least a 9.

also being drunk is a great excuse for kino. if they deny its cool cuz ur drunk ... right? :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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