"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Field report.

toddC

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Okay, this is a field report from last night (Saturday). I was at a costume party last night. Me and my boys came in togas (everyone loved it).

So right as I walk in I see 4-5 girls I've been sarging in school for the past few weeks and right away 2 of them come up and give me the kiss hello and I start kinoing them right away. So everyone gets trashed beer pong, flip cups, kings, you name it they had it at this party (even absinthe...yes its the real green stuff from Euro Trip)

So I go get trashed and sure enough I'm having a great time.

The girls:

HB 8.5 - I walk up to her (i've known her for a while now) and start talking and put my arm around her (jokingly) she accepts the kino quite well so I do it more and more and it ended up she tried looking for a private place to "talk" but it didn't work out.

HB 7 - I've known her for a while too..Took a few pix with her (added kino in) I kinda left her with just a kiss on the lips to tide her over for next weekend (homecoming)

HB 9 - I've been going after this chick for a VERY VERY long time. Finally I saw some positive responses as she was coming onto me before I even had a chance. I ended hooking up with this chick the majority of the night.

Thats it and in my mind it was a VERY positive night. Sorry with the lack of detail but I could go on and on with these stories lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, this is a field report from last night (Saturday). I was at a costume party last night. Me and my boys came in togas (everyone loved it).

So right as I walk in I see 4-5 girls I've been sarging in school for the past few weeks and right away 2 of them come up and give me the kiss hello and I start kinoing them right away. So everyone gets trashed beer pong, flip cups, kings, you name it they had it at this party (even absinthe...yes its the real green stuff from Euro Trip)

So I go get trashed and sure enough I'm having a great time.

The girls:

HB 8.5 - I walk up to her (i've known her for a while now) and start talking and put my arm around her (jokingly) she accepts the kino quite well so I do it more and more and it ended up she tried looking for a private place to "talk" but it didn't work out.

HB 7 - I've known her for a while too..Took a few pix with her (added kino in) I kinda left her with just a kiss on the lips to tide her over for next weekend (homecoming)

HB 9 - I've been going after this chick for a VERY VERY long time. Finally I saw some positive responses as she was coming onto me before I even had a chance. I ended hooking up with this chick the majority of the night.

Thats it and in my mind it was a VERY positive night. Sorry with the lack of detail but I could go on and on with these stories lol.
was the hb9 really hb9 or simply because you feel her more than you put hb9 ???

and uh sounds like as good as it can be !!
point of field report is for those details tho :D :cool:
 

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yea she is def a HB 9 i'm positive. and yea i know but i coulda gone on forever with this FR lol...
 

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uhh when ur wasted everyone is at least a 9.

also being drunk is a great excuse for kino. if they deny its cool cuz ur drunk ... right? :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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