"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok this is from way back friday, but ive had hella s*hit to do....here it goes

i was on the bus on the way home friday, when i saw this HB latina (about a 6)...i tried to make eye contact but she kept staring straight ahead (for those of you who take sf muni, i couldn't sit next to her b/c the seats are single on one side, so the bus was pretty full:eek: anyway im thinking about how bad it is that im still shy, and i say f*uck it the first chance i get to approach a girl im gonna do it..,so we both get off on the next stop and we happen to start walking next to each other :confused: (dam talk about luck)! so i ask how she's doing...

me: hi how are you?
her: huh?
me: how are u?
her: im fine you?
me: im good u just get out of school?
her: yeah i go to (didn't and still don't know what she said)
its a school for learning english oh
me: is that a high school?
her: laughs no
me: what is it?
her:its a school for learning english
me: how old are you? (beginning to wonder if i picked up jailbait)
her: 19, ill be 20 this year
me: when?
her: july
me: oh thats cool..so where are you from?
her: mexico
me: (spanish) oh when did u move here?
her: (spanish..pretty much in spanish the rest of the way) 3 years ago.
me: oh so u were born there? your not married are you? (i asked that b/c usually the mexican sistas that i meet are married :mad:
her: no
me: who do u live with?
her: my family, i have two sisters and a bro
me: how old is your sister? (just out of curiosity)
her: 15
me: thats cool

summing up: from here on im laughing at myself b/c my spanish isn't all that good, she is laughing, i tell her that she is talking to fast, grabs my arm and apologizes.....she says that she don't believe i don't speak spanish b/c the people she meets don't like to speak it.

so we get to her house (i was walking to the bank near it)
--still in spanish

well here's my stop
*looks at me, shrugs, has this big smile on face*
asked her name, exchanged name and handshake
and i walk away thinking should i ask for her number even though there is a language barrier, and i though ah hell why not, ill see if i can get over the hurdle

me: let me give you a call sometime...
her: ok gives me her number

and i said well it was nice meeting you, and she still was looking at me with a big smile, i guess i should have walked her all the way, but it was across teh street and down and out of my way..

i stilll haven't called her yet, still not sure about language barrier, but there is a good chance ill call...........................im just happy i did it....
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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if you know spanish, there is no language barrier...
 

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Good stuff. You left just at the right time, u shouldnt have walked with her all the way! It is always funny to speak to Latinas in Spanish when your spanish is poor. It is all just a big joke on you really! hahaha, I try do it all the time, and my spanish is VERY poor, but always breaks the ice and makes them laugh!
 
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